Women meet Mr. Wrong because Mr. Right doesn't exist. What I mean is that her real expectations will never be realized because men do not, will not and can not change who they are. Men are chameleons when it comes to attracting a woman but their true color is usually hidden.

 Remember ladies, the man you are trying to form has already been in his mommy's mold for many years. A woman has to find a way through conversation and subtle investigation in order to find out what makes a certain man tick. Women must find out who the real man is and then decide if she wants to continue the relationship.  

I believe that many women look at a man like taking on an improvement project. She will pick a looser and out of sheer determination, try her best to make him a winner. If she succeeds in making him a winner, he runs off with some bimbo that weighs a few pounds less and treats him like a God.

 This happens because the woman didn't dig deep at first to see that he really was a looser outside and in. If a man is selfish when you meet him, he will be selfish 50 years later. Read his eyes for honesty and listen to his words "between the lines" for how he really feels about you. If he is a cock-a-doodle-doer about his finances or love making ability, run away as fast as you can because this is an idiot looking for eye candy to impress his friends.

Women meet Mr. Wrong constantly because they are overlooking Mr. Maybe. Mr. Maybe can turn into Mr. Yes , if he shows patience and a real effort to get to know who the woman is.  Mr. Yes is simply the man who can fulfill her needs emotionally and physically. He will be her partner in life with love and will always talk with her and her only about their relationship.

 Three is definitely a crowd when it comes to love. Thousands of marriages break apart because of an instigating third party. Your life at home and especially in the bedroom is the ultimate sacred trust of a marriage. On the other hand, it is a no brainer to dump someone who abuses you in any way.

The fact remains that women meet Mr. Wrong and men meet Ms. Wrong all the time. If intuition is trying to scream "NO" above the voices of loneliness and needing love, stop, look and listen!  Your gut feeling most all of the time is right.  Dose he treat you like he loves you? Does he talk to you like he loves you? True love is easiest to find when you are not looking for it.

 I know this is old school but it works. Just be yourself and be aware of the men who talk to you and not at you. Is a man looking at you like he would like to meet you or he would like to bed you? All men will look at your body, but Mr. Maybe will care enough to also look at who you are.

Here are my seven signs of love: 1, A gleam in the eye. 2 An inviting smile. 3. A feeling of faith. 4. A warmth in your heart. 5. A calm in your soul. 6. A sigh of surrender. 7. A wish for a kiss. These seven things on a night out in the worst bar in town was what I experienced when I met my wife 20 years ago. She is still my Ms. Yes. True love may be just around the corner of your eye. One sparkle in the eyes of love is worth more than a trillion sparkling diamonds. Keep not looking and you will find him.