Some men flirt with women just to have sex with them and this is a turn off to most women. Women think in a different way and it's more common for a women to flirt with a man just for romance or just to be friendly and have no desire to date you. It's also possible that women flirt with men just to reassure themselves that they are attractive to the opposite sex.

Women are naturally attracted to strong alpha males. This is a natural selection instinct to ensure continuation of a strong healthy species and to find a strong mate who will provide for them and their offspring.

Flirting with women is easier if you can project a strong, positive and confident aura. Even if you are very shy and find it hard to chat up women, by projecting positive energy you will attract positive energy back into your life. Let go of negative thoughts and practice visualisation techniques to bring into your life what you desire.

Write down all the positive things about yourself that you can think of, no matter how small and you will surprise yourself. List all your achievements. You may wonder what this has to do with flirting with women, but having a strong positive self image and feeling good about yourself is very powerful to women. Visualise what you want in life and believe that it already exists. The mind is very powerful and by believing and acting as if you already have what you want you will eventually be successful in achieving it.

Be honest about yourself and don't exaggerate your lifestyle just to impress her. You will get found out and it won't go in your favour!

Shyness can make you feel insecure and fearful of rejection putting you off the idea of flirting with women, but most women are flattered that a man would flirt with them, especially if that man is attractive and confident. Anyway the worst thing that could happen is that she will reject your advances. Never take this personally as at this stage the woman you are trying to flirt with doesn't know you. Maybe she is already in a relationship and doesn't want the advances of another man.

Flirting is a numbers game, the more you flirt the more chance you will have of meeting that attractive and desirable woman that you want to date. The more you practice the better you will become at flirting. Flirting can also give you energy and draw people towards you

Flirting with women doesn't have to be hard. One simple technique if you spot an attractive woman at a bar or singles club is to look in her direction and hold her gaze. Smile at her and If she responds to your flirting in a positive way by coyly smiling at you then you can break the ice by approaching her and introducing yourself.

Don't be scared, remember never take a rejection personally. Compliment her on something she is wearing and then offer to buy her a drink.

Women love guys with a sense of humour that make them laugh. It can be a real turn on for a woman if you can tease her gently and make some humorous comment. Not cheesy though!

Once you have established a relationship with a woman don't stop flirting with her. Keep the relationship fresh and alive with a bit of gentle teasing and flirting. Send her text messages to say you love her and can't wait to see her again, even if you live together.