Hubpages questions answered by Stricktly Dating regarding relationships, dating and understanding women:

• Why do women cheat?

Usually they're not getting the kind of attention they need from their partner. I'm not implying it's his fault though, but the answer usually is he needs to give her more attention and appreciation, so that she wouldn't think of looking for it elsewhere.

• Writing dirty comments is a turn off for women?

Yes it's usually a turn off, unless you are in a sexual relationship with the woman, you may come across as being a bit sleezy, even scary, it's better to write sweet words to a woman, and usually will get you further with them.

• How to spice up a dead sex life...with your prude wife?

The secret is usually by paying her more attention. Both in the bedroom and out of it. However not everyone has the same tastes/desires/fetishes, she might not be a prude, maybe she just doesn't like something you suggested, so try suggesting other things, or asking her about her own fantasies, and take it from there.

• What do you think is the most important thing for you in a relationship?

Compatibility. In a relationship I'll be honest and faithful. I want someone who is compatible with this.

• Had a breakup a month before. Now she is feeling guilty as she was moving with another guy.

For now, just be as honest and open with her about your feelings as you can. Also listen to what she has to say, because she was with another man (no matter what the excuse) and you'll need to keep that in mind.

• Does your spouse have the right to look through your pockets when you're sleeping?

It's ok only if they're genuinely looking for something - Have they misplaced their keys or concert tickets... Otherwise it's just sneeky! And in that case it could be seen as 'controlling' type of behaviour...Like they're looking for some sort of evidence. They could have 'trust' issues.

• Is it possible to forget your first love?

Absolutely. Your first love is not necessarily your best love! People change so much over the years. Infact, oneday you may see your first love walking down the street and think - Eww! What was I thinking?!

• What is the best way to go about Online Dating?

Join up at some of the big name reputable Dating Websites, create a profile outlining your hobbies, your passions, and what type of person & relationship you are looking for. Post a clear photo showing your face. Before you contact someone read their profile, so that you're familier with what their interests are - If you decide to contact them, don't just say hello, tell them something more about you, and maybe ask them a question too. The best way to go about it is to be respectful, genuine and sincere. If one Dating Site doesn't work for you, don't lose heart, try another, as they all offer something different. Personally, I prefer to use Dating Sites which allow you to use Webcam, as I find it more interesting. See which dates let you use your Webcam here: WEBCAM-FRIENDLY DATING SITES

• How do you gain the courage to tell a girl you love her?

If you can't say it in words, say it with flowers. Red Roses symbolise love...

• Do Love Potions and Love Spells Really work?

You can make your own Love Potions from essential oil blends, using Aromatherapy, it has been used for centuries. You can use it to enhance your love life and set the mood. Read more about Aromatherapy here: USING AROMATHERAPY TO INCREASE PASSION

• Cute pet names to call your significant other?

I always put two words together to make a pet name eg:
Him to Her: Little-Princess, Sexy-girl, sweetie-kitten.

• Which men make the best lovers?

Men who are confident, faithful, and who take the time to please the woman. Men who ask us what we want and then are willing to try it. Men who are passionate and a little daring and who kiss and caress, and don't make it too rough.

• Why is it so hard for woman to answer simple yes or no questions, not let the person hang or wonder about?

If a girl is not saying yes or no about a relationship, it usually means she does not know. If she knew either way, she'd say it easily. It's when we are not sure that we can't say anything.

• Men don't understand women. What does a woman really want?

What I really want as a woman, could be different to what another woman really wants. We are not all the same in our wants and needs, just like men.

• Does sex differ in circumcised and uncircumcised men?

As a female there is no difference during sex if he is circumcised or not, we wouldn't feel any difference. We can only tell they are different when we look at it, but the performance has the same feeling for both for a woman.

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