Relationships whether they are between the opposite sex or the same sex are based on one key element, communication. Communication being the most important part of any relationship involves more listening than actual talking. When engaging in communication with your partner make sure to pay attention to those nonverbal cues like wringing of hands that shows frustration or anxiety. These cues tell the emotional state that the person is in and try to show empathy to what they are feeling. Never interject or put down your partners feelings. When listening don't become defensive. Keep in mind that what is being stated is the other person's feeling and opinions and how they view each interaction. Active listening gives you a chance to ask for understanding, express your thoughts without being argumentative, and to get the others individuals thoughts on the issue that needs to be discussed. Allow your partner to speak their full thoughts, remove all negative dialog and tones when you respond. The key thing to remember with active listening is to be respectful and patient with the person who is speaking and your almost there in resolving the problem. Even if you agree to disagree