Do you have everything you want?

Without even knowing you, I know you do not have everything you want. How do I know this?

No matter how satisfied you are with what you have, there is always something you desire or desire more of. What is it?

Why don't you already have it?

How do you get it?

I can tell you why you don't have it and how to get it.

The most common reason for not having what you want is that you haven't quite defined what it is that you really want. You may think you have, but unless you can describe it in precise detail, you really haven't thought it through.

Why do we fail to identify what we truly want?

Many people allow fear of failure or disappointment to keep them from thinking too big. They are afraid to want something beyond what they think they can have. That puts them in a state of frustration. As long as you're frustrated you won't be able to clearly focus on what you want. Without identifying what you really want, how can you ever have it? It's virtually impossible.

Some people fear making a choice for fear it is will be the wrong choice or that there may be something better around the corner if they wait. That is equally frustrating. Please remember than when you make a choice, you're making a choice for now. This doesn't have to be a lifetime choice. You are free to change your mind at anytime. But, it is extremely important that you decide for now what you want or nothing is going to change for you.

Start taking the time to identify what you want in vivid detail. This doesn't have to take hours. We're all busy. Just spend a few minutes each day investing in your dreams.

Where do I start?

Think about all of the options available and start picking the features you'd like it to have. For instance, if you want a new car. Start right now determining what features the car should have. What color is it? What kind of interior? Go test drive some cars. Don't worry about whether or not you have the money to buy it. Don't even think about the financing of it just yet. Right now, it doesn't matter how you're going to get it.

Don't make the mistake of trying to keep it all inside your head. There are lots of ways to keep track of your desires. I recommend either writing them down or cutting out pictures of the things you want or a combination of both. There is no right or wrong way to do this. Do whatever it takes to make definitive choices about what you want. If you don't write it down, you probably won't remember it.

Now that you know how to do it, I'm sure you have questions. Most people don't see how it can be quite that simple. You're probably thinking that car isn't just going to appear in your drive-way one day without you doing something. That is absolutely correct. But, the something that you will need to do won't ever be something that took a great amount of thought or planning. When it's time to act, it will be the most logical, sensible, and glorious feeling action you could think of taking in the moment it arrives. It will happen almost effortlessly.

Re-read what you just read. Let it really soak in.

If you are struggling with how to make something happen or worrying about it, fretting over it, concerned about it, then it's because you haven't figured our what you really want. Step back and think about what you want. As you do that, the 'how' to do it will start happening. You're the only one holding yourself up in this process.

So now you're comfortable with the concept and you want to try it on a few things you want. If you are overly anxious or desperate then you're going to create tension. This method will only work for you if you can relax and actually get excited about what you want. When you think of the item or condition you're wanting to have or experience think about it already happening and how it will make you feel. Spend a few minutes each day really concentrating on this feeling of having it. Get excited. Prepare yourself for the feelings associated with having it. That is the quickest way to get it. In this state, you are more receptive to receive the impulses to do the things you'll do to have it. The how's will start hapening. You'll recognize opportunities when they come up and you'll take them without any fear.

As you begin to master this process, you'll realize there is nothing that you can't have. There is no reason to ever fear being able to have anything just the way you want it.

That's power that no one can ever take from you.