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By SirDent


Phi 3:13 Brethren, I count not myself to have apprehended: but this one thing I do, forgetting those things which are behind, and reaching forth unto those things which are before,

I have seen many, many people that have nothing except the past to hold on to. They live in the past it seems, because that's all they have. They talk about how someone hurt them at sometime in their childhood or how someone gave them a dirty look at the supermarket today and countless other things. I have known people to hold a grudge against someone that has been dead for years even. Why do we hold to our past so much? What did we leave that we need today? Why won't these people just get on with their lives?

1Ki 17:1 And Elijah the Tishbite, who was of the inhabitants of Gilead, said unto Ahab, As the LORD God of Israel liveth, before whom I stand, there shall not be dew nor rain these years, but according to my word.

1Ki 17:2 And the word of the LORD came unto him, saying,

1Ki 17:3 Get thee hence, and turn thee eastward, and hide thyself by the brook Cherith, that is before Jordan.

1Ki 17:4 And it shall be, that thou shalt drink of the brook; and I have commanded the ravens to feed thee there.

Elijah went where the Lord led him to go. He stayed at the brook of Cherith that actually fed the river Jordan. God fed Elijah all the time he was there by commanding the ravens to feed him bread and meat.

1Ki 17:7 And it came to pass after a while, that the brook dried up, because there had been no rain in the land.

1Ki 17:8 And the word of the LORD came unto him, saying,

1Ki 17:9 Arise, get thee to Zarephath, which belongeth to Zidon, and dwell there: behold, I have commanded a widow woman there to sustain thee.

There came a time when this brook dried up and the Lord commanded Elijah to go to Zarephath. Elijah forgot that which he left behind to go to where the Lord wanted him to go. In this day and time we live in we must do the same. Forget what we left behind and pursue what God has laid before us. Just as the brook dried up where God told Elijah to go, the brook that God has put us at will dry up also. We must then move toward the place God has told us to go to. When the brook dried up it was then of no use to Elijah or anyone else. Even the water down-river in the river Jordan is the same water Elijah had been drinking during that time. It will now be old and stagnant. I'm sure no one would want to drink stagnated water. When we hold on to the past hurts and keep unforgivingness in our hearts for those that hurt us, we will surely be drinking stagnated water. It is of no use at all for anyone, except the devil. He will use the past to try and hold us back from the blessings of God. And when we allow that to happened we are going backward instead of forward.

Phi 3:14 I press toward the mark for the prize of the high calling of God in Christ Jesus.

Paul wrote that he will "press toward the mark of the high calling of God in Christ." Paul had completely forgotten where he had been and was only remembering where he is going. This is something we need to learn to do. We need to be "perfect" in the Lord Jesus Christ. We need to keep walking on faith and forget about what we see and hear in this world. Forgetting all those that have hurt us. Letting go of the hurt that keeps us form receiving blessings from the Lord.

Prayer

Father God we know that we have come short of your glory. We know that we are still learning your ways. Help us Lord to learn your ways so that we may be "perfect" in you. Help us to forget those that have hurt us and to keep pressing toward the mark of the high calling you have given us. We love you and praise your holy name. Those that are still lost I pray that conviction be put upon their heart that they may know you and be able to forget the hurts that they have experienced. In Jesus precious name, AMEN.

(Comments and Suggestions are always appreciated.)


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Riggy profile image

Riggy  says:
2 years ago

I really enjoyed this. John is always such a great inspiration for me personally. What a past he had as a very anti-Christian man, and yet upon his Holy Conversion he left his past becoming a New Man in Christ Jesus. You really captured this well!

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SirDent  says:
2 years ago

Thanks for the encouragement. I really appreciate it very much.

Andrea  says:
2 years ago

I just want to say that after reading here a bit, I can totally identify with the subject. I struggle with an engagement that I was involved in and a marriage that never happend. Now I'm married to a different man & think alot of my ex-fiance whom left me after I came forth with some confessions about my past pains and abusive relationship from an ex-boyfriend, my ex-fiance left me, he was hurt also and I wonder to this day how he is and what if this....and what if that and yet I'm married. Here I am, waiting on God for the 1st time, patient & yet anxious to see how he'll work in my life through Christ & the holy spirit. Thanks John for the biblical comfort!

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SirDent  says:
2 years ago

I am glad you found some comfort here with this hub Andrea. If you happen to ocme back, keep waiting on God. He always knows what's best for you and will only do good things for you.

Silly  says:
15 months ago

WELL IF YOU AT LEAST KEEP IT IN BACK OF YOUR MIND ,NO ONE CAN HURT YOU THAT SAME WAY AGAIN

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SirDent  says:
15 months ago

People will always be hurt by others. It happens in life consistently. It is when people can't let go of their hurts that trouble comes and stays with them, causing many more problems that are even worse.

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blessedmommy  says:
13 months ago

I was hurt deeply once and I posted 1 Corinthians 13 on my refrigerator where I could see it often. I also read your hub on forgiveness recently and that has helped me let go of some of the hurt that remained. This is a great addition to what I've already read - I appreciate it. As Christ forgave us that's how we should forgive. Once I decided to let go of the past I've felt so much freedom and love for the person who hurt me. It's easy to hold onto the past if your not careful - even for Christians.

This also applies to other areas such as grief, death etc. There is a time to let go and move on - I've learned that as well.

My Dad used that story about Elijah as his final sermon when he felt God leading him to resign the church that he had pastored. Change isn't always easy, but when the Lord says move and the brook has dried up we better go before we dry up!

Anonymous  says:
9 months ago

This is my prayer - good hub and ty for posting. Learning to let go and let God is one of the hardest lessons a person can learn, but it's well worth learning.

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Linda's Hub Pages  says:
4 months ago

Thank you so much for this very true & powerful hub.Holding on to hurt is so much easier than letting go.I had this problem when I first gave my life to God.I didn't feel like the ones who hurt me needed forgiveness,in my mind I thought they should come to me & ask forgiveness,then I would decide if I wanted to forgive them.But I learned unforgiveness hurts you more than the hurt one caused you.I've learned that we can not even forgive on our own,we must take it to God & ask His help.We begin to heal slowly & then we find ourselves praying for those who hurt us.We no longer carry the pain that was caused us.I have a lot more to say on this,but I will stop for my husband says I have a gift for gab.How true,LoL!

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SirDent  says:
4 months ago

Linda, I am so glad you were able to forgive. If we refuse to forgive others, our Father will not forgive us. The gift of gab is a good gift when used in the right way. Without the anointing, we have nothing.

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