Well, some tough luck. You just lost your guy. Is there a chance of getting him back successfully? There are certain things which work without fail. The foremost is that you need to attract him back to you instead of pulling him back towards you.

Why? It works on human psychology. People have this disquieting tendency to want things they do not have. And this includes you. If someone gets something very easily, the effort does not seem worth it. So, the harder it is to get something, the more desirable it becomes. You might even have experienced it yourself. When someone pushes something at you, the natural reaction is to reject it.

This psychological principle works in human relationships as well. If you pressure your ex, the more he will be turned off by this unexpected behavior from you. The more pushy you become, the more he will reject you and put more distance between the two of you. A prime example is calling several times a day that he hardly has time to think. His phone keeps ringing and every time he answers it, he hears your voice on the other end. It simply negates what you are trying to do.

The thing you can do that will work almost always is to improve yourself. Get your self-respect back. Improve on your social skills. Work on your exercise and maintain that body. Drastically work on your physical appearance. Create an impression that you are not an easy person to be had. These activities will make you more self-confident and nothing is more attractive to other guys than a working who exudes confidence.

When your ex-boyfriend sees these positive changes in you, he will suddenly feel to have lost someone very valuable. He will regret his decision of leaving you and may even make the first move to win you over again.

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