It seems everything is vastly new and different when you finally get back with your ex-boyfriend. It seems that you still have misgivings about back into a relationship which had turned sour just a few days or weeks ago. But you are probably correct in your feelings. Everything is really different this time. The hard part was getting back together again. This juncture in your relationship needs careful handling. Let him show he is sincere enough to want you back and it is imperative on your part that you do the same. Do not force things. Take your time and let the relationship grow on its own if it is possible. If it was quite impossible for the two of you to get back together again, then you must also realize that you could just as easily split up again. Expect some changes, whether big or small in both of you. He expects you to be different in the same way that you expect him to have changed.

The time of getting back together is surely a critical time. The mood can easily get nasty if you are not careful about the way you handle this situation. For one, he may remember of certain hurts in the past and has a problem in forgetting them. This is certainly true if there were some issues which specifically led to the break up. When he is inadvertently reminded of these things, his tendency is to clam up and even get tense. This is the point where an honest communication is really needed. If there is a need to talk things over, then this is the most opportune time to do so.

As a general rule, relationships that went under and then revived somehow are generally better off than the original relationships. It is highly recommended to let him know that past is past and that everything is now water under the bridge.

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