When your girlfriend breaks up with you, 9 times out of 10 you're doing something wrong. I'd almost go so far as to say 10 out of 10...but strange things can happen. The bottom line is, women can be a little tough to maintain a good relationship with, but it is possible. You just have to figure out where you went off track and why exactly she gave you the axe.

Now, some girls are kind enough to flat-out tell you every single one of your faults in great detail. That can be kinda handy when you're trying to come up with what you need to change, but unfortunately not every woman has the patience to go into a list like that, so sometimes you'll find yourself full of faults with no idea of where to start. Well, that's where I'll come in, with a list of some of the most common things us doofus guys do to make our lady leave.

1) Top thing that women hate is when you don't pay attention to her. I know, completely unreasonable! Girls seem to have this thing where they need to feel like they matter to you, like what they have to say is important to you because you love her. As crazy as that is, it's pretty vital to any relationship you'd like to have with one that there's no doubt in her mind that this expectation is satisfied. I advise actually trying to listen to her. I know it hurts, but so do heavy contact sports...and trust me, the points you'll score with her beat any touchdown.

2) Women usually have some concept of when a guy is or isn't being "emotionally supportive." I'm not exactly sure what this means, but I think it has something to do with list item number one...listening. It might also have to do with telling her you love her and buying her stuff. I dunno, watch a few romantic comedies, usually there's something in there about guys not being "emotionally supportive," maybe you'll find something useful.

3) For some really weird reason, girlfriends don't seem to be too fond of the concept of "cheating," even if some of them do it themselves. Oh, and cheating doesn't necessarily involve sex with another woman...sometimes a fantasy of having sex with another woman constitutes cheating as well. Really, the safest bet is to forget that other women exist. All women other than your girlfriend cease to be women, they're now officially odd-looking guys, and fantasizing about sex with guys is just weird...unless that's just your thing, and in that case why do you have a girlfriend anyways?

4) If you two are living together, household stuff is a big hot-button issue with the ladies. They seem to want you to help with it or something. I don't think many relationships ended because you didn't take out the trash, but they probably made her, like, stressed, or something. Plus, she starts thinking you're lazy...and she usually doesn't like that.

But yeah, these are just a few big things girls seem to frown upon. Trust me, there are a million and one other things we can do to tick them off and make them leave, but those are the ones it usually comes down to. Number three in particular seems to drive them away pretty quickly.

So why is this information of any use at all if you've already broken up? Well first off, it can help in any future goes at a relationship, with her or anyone else. Also, it can give you an idea of what's the matter with you, so that you can fix it and make yourself seem more attractive to her. You'll need more than a good pickup line to get her back, so you have to actually kinda work at yourself to make her want you back. My expert advice is to figure out what your biggest flaws were that helped her make up her mind to leave you, and make yourself not have them anymore. Then, next time you guys meet, she'll probably see how much more amazing you are and jump into your arms.

Ok, maybe not jump into your arms, but she may be more inclined to give the two of you a second shot. Or third, if that's how it's gone.

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