The problem that many guys experience when trying to get a greater sexual response from their female partner is refusing to address her outlook.

It's a case where the guy wants to improve the sexual relationship, but his partner could care less. But instead of addressing it, he continues to try different things.

When you make your main focus improving her outlook, while understanding that she has to be the one that wants to improve, you will always get greater results.

Once you succeed at that you can move on to the next phase.

Another common problem is the guy who wants to argue with his wife about the lack of sex. The 'idea' that a discussion will make everything better is normally a result of social conditioning. In other words, the world has taught us that discussions solve problems. As a result, we apply it to everything.

When it comes to correcting sexual problems, it's the worse thing a guy can do.

When you argue (or have discussions) about improving the sex life, you can only accomplish one thing. And that is convincing her even more that there is a sexual problem.

The more she believes there is a problem, the more she'll act out the role of a woman who doesn't enjoy sex.

The problem will never be solved by having a discussion. At best, you'll get short term courtesy sex, but the long term result will be an even greater sexual problem.

In reality, you have to "do things differently" if you want to solve the problem.

Most guys have discussions.

I'm telling you to do things backwards - to NEVER have a discussion about the sex life.

I don't care how bad you think things are.

From now on, everything you say and do should have the strategic function of getting her to change her perception of you...in a good way...in a sexier way.

In addition to that, convince her that there isn't a sex problem (even if you really believe there is a problem).

Your greatest leverage point, is the FACT that a person's perception of something can change.

So figure out what new things you can say to change how she perceives you.

What can you do to change how she sees you?

What experiences can you provide that could change how she sees you?

Let's now look at the most efficient seduction formula. I discovered this through analyzing several variables. And it's life changing if you are able to see how it works.

I have helped thousands of guys using this simple formula. And not only does it always works, it has to work, simply because it's a representation of what happens when a woman goes from not in the mood to becoming sexually aroused.

Here's the formula:

Get Her In A Happy Mood + Increase Your Sexual Value + Increase Sexual Tension

It's that simple.

Instructor CR James (Seduction Strategist and Author of Super Seduction Power is currently giving away his free report http://SuperPowerMedia.com/4copiesleft