Do you know what your children are going through not giving the much anticipated attention, care and love they hunger for? Have you pondered once or even more in your busy business hours, what your children may be to up to. Hah… I guess you must be wondering.

“So excruciating are the untold experience, children go through due to negligence on the side of the parents not giving them the necessary and deserved love, care, understanding and attention. As a result, children become face with depression and emotional trauma which draws them far from the parents.”

As I was cleaning out a closet some weeks ago, and I found a personal diary in which I wrote a lot about some of my growing up experiences. Growing for me was filled with a lot of loneliness, anxiety, insecurity and unpleasant memories. Why? Mum happens to be ever busy must of the time and dad always immersed in his business, official assignments, meetings and power-lunches.

Millions of children out there are just like I was then now. They are with same or even worse experiences. Every child craves immensely for the parents company. But the reverse happens to be the case. This agonizing incident makes the child feel neglected and discriminated against. This has resulted in the child facing emotional traumas.

Parents most think they know so much about their children intimacy. When the child doesn’t have full parental attention, he or she learns to suppress and conceal her pains. This has made so many children harbor wound in their heart which later start reflecting on their activities physically, mentally, emotionally, and otherwise. The child now learns to live in solitude and isolate from the community.

The child hiding her feelings from the parents makes the he or she become distant because the relationship has retarded. The effect of this can be such as inability to concentrate on her studies properly, indulgence in immoral activities and so on.

Parents should keep a close intimate relationship with their children. Occasionally take them out and whole family to public of interest like the amusement park, cultural centers and museum etcetera. This way you revive and develop true affection and oneness with the child. You get to know her thoughts and ways and how to go about them. There’s this sense of belonging. It relaxes tensions, anxieties, isolation, worries plus fears. The child doesn’t see you only as his or her parents but as a friend, helper, guardian and confidant that they can unravel their innermost emotions to when it arises. Every parent will love a mutual friendship existing between them and their children. By such relationship, they can tell what they passing through.

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