I always seem to notice the hotties! My first love was worldly and sexy. He was tall ,dark and handsome, with an accent and not a care in the world. Mid 30's, black wavy hair, dark brown eyes that sought out your every passion! He was charismatic in every way. He walked into a room and took command without even saying a word. Some people have a presence that commands attention, he did.Picture a combination of George Clooney and Richard Gere.Hmmmm........

It makes me ask how some men, even if they aren't young, hard bodied, and drop dead gorgeous, seem to have more sex appeal than their younger apprentices. What is that certain quality in a man that makes him exude sex appeal without even trying. Is it the smile, the deep voice, the accent, the way he carries himself, the look that sees into your soul? Most likely a combination of qualities, but some men have it and others do not.

Good looks generally are the determining factor for a sexy man. Afterall, we ladies stare at them also.

 Late at night, some of us ladies tend to read a love story, imagining ourselves as the damsel in distress being rescued by the handsome and charming prince. We usually wake to our own reality, and not such a romantic story. The prince of our hearts might not be as great as the hero in the story, but did do something to gain our admiration. Nowadays, having a job shows a lot of effort. We woman are so demanding of the men in our lives to want more,or as much as we do, and work for it. In the end we seem to be spending all of our time working that we don't actually get the chance to enjoy the prince. Then we blame the guy  for not putting in the effort and we start to look for a replacement.

The men in the stories are on such a pedastal-will we ever reach anything to get that high?Seriously, most of my lady friends always say the same thing about the men in their lives, they are or arent what they need right now. they have or have not done what it was that we wanted, etc. When are we going to realize that prince charming isn't going to swoop us up off the ground and move us into the castle? We are out there working for it, longing for it, and getting our own castles. Most of us women are hiring men to fix them!