HOW TO KNOW IF YOUR PARTNER IS CHEATING ON YOU

I believe that most of us have been or are in relationships where trust is a thing that is very scarce or not available at all. we have read stories or articles giving us outlines or hints to look out for whenever we are in a relationship.These hints are meant to help us dicover whether our partner is cheating on us or not.Well there is no hard and fast rule about relationship(s).

We have hints such as:discovering by accident that you partner is having an affair or maybe you partner confesses to having such an affair. The question is what if you did not discover or that your partner is enjoying the relationship and was not ready to confess to you at all or don't you know that sex is in this day an age is the major thing in a relationship where people do not even know when it is rigth or wrong, sex has been greatly abused where you have cousins sleeping with themselves, inlaws sleeping with themselves or even sisters sleeping with her sisters husband, fathers sleeping with daughters,boss sleeping with secretary. pastors sleeping with members wives or daughters.To me sex is beautiful, but also the most greatly abused creation of God.

Imagine a story of a young 18 year old girl who found herself in the university and at the end of her four years in the university she could not even count the number of friends she has slept with not to talk of others in the university community,she sees nothing wrong with it because she talks about it easily in the public ,tell me what will happen to any unfortunate guy who ends up marrying such a lady in future.Sex is addictive just like alchohol and drugs,ones you are hooked it will take alot of effort on your part, the help of a terapist, and intervention of God to overcome it.

Have you ever been introduced to someone by your partner and you and that person became friend and you later on discover that you partner is actually sleeping with the guy.You can get a hunch that something is going on, but you may not be able to prove it until many years later, even if neighbours know or suspect you will surely be the last person to know about such an affair? well things happen in relationship(s).It is not the problem of just one of the sexes, but the problem of both.It is even getting out of hand these days when the easy selling things on the internet is sex, people are making money by asking you to enlarge your sex organ, asking you to become a porn star? Many have been duped on the internet siply because they are sex addict imagine the world we live in well, all i can say now is look out for the things i will look for to know if iam being cheated.

• The first and most interesting is

• 1 Lack of enthusiasm in sex by your partner:i mean when there is such a sudden change of attitude by your partner towards having sex with you.

• 2.Too much enthusiasm.when your partner demands for too much sex more than you usually engage in , then think towards the fact that he/she has been exposed to sex more than you know and he/she needs to keep up with the urge.He/ She suddenly became over affectionate or the main subject you discuss is now sex, sex,and more sex.

• 3.Your partner suddenly sees nothing good in you always complaining at every little mistakes you make,you collection of films at home is now tending toward sex or pornography, no more interest i sharing quality time with you or the kids at home, he is always giving excuse to leave the house.

• 3You can not pick up your partners phone to receive his calls, he is always wishpering when he/she talks on the phone.He may even become aggressive to the extent of getting physical.He smile to himself/herself often.

• 4. This applies to the men most , the female partner suddenly discover she as an infection,this is because men are careless they can sleep with any thing inskirt,while women are very choosy, considering the risk of infection.

• 5.He/she doesn't discuss his /movement with you any more, becomes difficult to reach or even tell lies that you have discovered.

• 6.Your partner suddenly demands for sexual positions that are only seen in porn films,something you don't do before, or he prefers to visit places alone without you.

• 7 The one i love most is when your partner suddenly loose all trust in you getting jealous at all your friend asking question about your movement, suspecting every move you make,this may be because he/she is doing it, and he wouldn't want that to happen to him.

There are many more hints to look for, but what will you do if you discover that your partner is cheating on you ? divorce him/her? and if you are not married get out of the relationship? Well that may not be right.Why? some people don't appreciate arelationship that is precious untill they have gone around and got hurt before they realise how precious their relationship is, so if your partner cheated on you and has now returned home, forgive him/her , He/she may turn out to be the best part of your entire life.If you are married,pray to God for guidance,He will help.

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