Handfastings

57
rate or flag this page

By Cindi LaMar


Springtime, Love and... Handfasting?

It is the springtime of the year and thoughts turn to love. To all people past and present, courtship leading to marriage is one of the great rites of passage in human life.

The time when one joins with another, when two come together to make one, is both personal and otherwordly. Throughout time there have evolved any number of traditions and rituals designed to ensure the health, wealth and fertility of a betrothed couple.

Unlike the sometimes elaborately orchestrated weddings which take place today, couples in the past were often sealed together in a simple, natural ceremony called a HANDFASTING...

Handfasting is a betrothal or wedding ritual in which the couple's clasped hands are tied together by a cord or ribbon — hence the phrase "tying the knot".

More and more, this ancient and richly spiritual tradition has found it's place with couples today who wish to be united in love and life with a Handfasting ceremony.

Believed to have begun with Pagan peoples of pre-Christian Europe, handfasting was intended to last for 'a year and a day'. On Beltane (May 1st), couples in love would be joined in the ritual of handfasting and live together as man and wife. At the end of the year and a day, the couple could then choose to either stay together permanently as man and wife, or go their separate ways with no strings---or handfasting cords--- attached! And any children born of the union not be looked down upon, but cherished by all as children born of love.

Today, however, when a couple chooses to include a handfasting in their wedding ceremony, it's done in the spirit of a permanent union, and is both a truly romantic and spiritual occasion!


Tying the Knot

'The vow is made, the knot is tied...forever more may love abide'
'The vow is made, the knot is tied...forever more may love abide'
Tying the Knot with a White Silken Cord.
Tying the Knot with a White Silken Cord.
Awaiting the bride, cords in hand!
Awaiting the bride, cords in hand!

Print   —   Rate it:  up  down  flag this hub

Comments

RSS for comments on this Hub

Peggy W profile image

Peggy W  says:
7 months ago

Very interesting. I had not heard that term Handfasting but now, thanks to you, I know what it means and the history behind it. Welcome to hubpages!

Cindi LaMar profile image

Cindi LaMar  says:
7 months ago

Thanks, Peggy, for the warm welcome! Glad I could share some information, as little as it is. =:o) Hopefully I will get around to adding to this hub. As a Wedding and Handfasting Officiant for the Seattle area, I have a lot of sweet-romantic-funny tales to tell that 'my' couples wouldn't mind me sharing.

libra profile image

libra  says:
7 months ago

Interesting information. But these days, I wonder, would not chains and locks have a more long-lasting effect?

Nice hub.

Cindi LaMar profile image

Cindi LaMar  says:
7 months ago

Well, libra, I guess that would depend if you view marraige as a prison! =:o) Thanks for the comments!

Melody Lagrimas profile image

Melody Lagrimas  says:
7 months ago

This is very interesting, haven't heard of it before, thanks.

Cindi LaMar profile image

Cindi LaMar  says:
7 months ago

Thanks, Melody! I'll be posting more hubs on handfasting in the future...from very simple ceremonies to the full works!

Submit a Comment

Members and Guests

Sign in or sign up and post using a hubpages account.


optional


  • No HTML is allowed in comments, but URLs will be hyperlinked
  • Comments are not for promoting your hubs or other sites

working