A good husband-wife relationship is precious. There's probably nothing in life worth saving more than this. Proven over decades, it's still the best arrangement for raising children, and combining incomes and domestic skills to live a better life. Probably most important though is the emotional and loving bond created between husband and wife.

There are several ways to keep your marriage on track and growing emotionally. Couples need to realize that marriage is a day to day relationship between changing people and should be kept realistic. Although many couples have "second honeymoons", both the husband and wife should expect sacrifices and also heartaches. These challenges can be overcome by a strong, loving marriage.

One important element to help grow and nurture a marriage is to remember to say nice things to each other on a daily basis. Complement one another on considerateness, doing laundry, washing dishes, physical appearances, etc. Also, don't be afraid to show affection, even in public. Holding hands, flirting, and even kissing in public can nurture the marriage. So many couples, over time, forget to do these little shows of affection. It really boosts a spouse's confidence in the other spouse's love for them when these little gestures are done often.

Two important results of a marriage are children and in-laws. A couple should not let the children divide them. The shared responsibility to the children should be kept separate from the responsibility and loyalty to the other mate. And the in-laws should not be allowed to make inroads. They should not be let to influence one mate against the other. The couple should discuss the problems that the in-laws are creating, and try to find solutions to these problems.

Fighting between married couples is sometimes necessary when there are disagreements. But to forgive and forget is always the best policy. Couples should seek out solutions to their problems and compromise as much as possible. There should be no winners or losers. Making up is the better stage of a fight!

Careers and work can sometimes damage a marriage. An over-achiever or workaholic can let their career take over their life and therefore shut out the other spouse. The right balance between business and personal life should be worked out. Remember, it's easier to get a good job than to find a good mate!

Doing things together normally increases the bond between couples. Playing and even working together adds zest and fun to the marriage. There is one important consideration to remember though. It's necessary to allow your spouse enough space, or they may feel too cramped or even worse, controlled.

Sex is very important in a marriage. Couples need to cooperate, talk, explore and experiment with one another. Protecting each other's feelings is necessary, and communication with each other is important. "Cold shoulder" silences are non-productive, and if continued can damage the relationship.

These tips for a satisfying marriage have been tried and proven. Keep positive and upbeat about the relationship. Turn problems into solutions and opportunities for greater understanding. Most importantly, stay loving towards your spouse. Following these simple ideas, your marriage should last and stay strong forever!