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By scottaye73



Have You Helped Someone Else Today?

There are many ways that we can consider other people in our lives. We can always think of ourselves and only "deal" with other people when we have to.

Or, we can take a step every day to try to impact someone else's life in a positive way. And although intentions of giving to others should be to help them, if done sincerely, this can be very rewarding and give us a great sense of accomplishment.

Giving to others can be simple and really doesn't have to cost anything as some may believe. Here are a few ways that you can help other people, or "impact" their lives without going much farther than you already do:

Give The Gift Of A Compliment:

A simple compliment like "you look nice today," or a sincere "thank you for what you are doing" can go along way and should be part of our daily routines. This kind of recognition makes the other individual involved feel better and will generally make them feel more comfortable.

Give The Gift Of Affection:

Don't be afraid to give hugs, kisses and "pats on the back" to the people you love. Maybe tell them how much you appreciate them in your life? Affection is something that we all crave as part of our human nature. This is a very good gift to give and lets the other person know that you care.

Give The Gift Of Laughter:

Make someone laugh today! Laugh at yourself with them if you have to. Laughter is one of the best gifts you can give because it reaches the internal soul of another and is natural. Making someone laugh is very pure and great for the inner being.

Give The Gift Of Listening:

Genuinely listen to someone. Do not interrupt them, don't daydream during a conversation, and try to respond only when asked...this is listening. Looking back at someone directly into their eyes when they are talking to you shows them that you are interested in what they are saying and will make them feel good.

Give The Gift Of A Written Note:

Send out a thank you note, a get-well card, or maybe just write a letter to an old friend? How you make others feel with this type of effort is unmeasurable. Other people understand the thoughtfulness behind a written note. And the fact that you took time out of your day to do such a thing will always make make them feel good, even if only for a moment.

Now I know I named this article: "Top 5 Ways..." but I actually have a sixth! And that is this:

Give The Gift Of Your Time:

Donate your time to a family member, friend or maybe just a good cause in your neighborhood or area that you live. What you accomplish will go way beyond the time spent in the act of helping. People remember back to how you helped them. If you are creative in what you do for them, this actually can be a great way for continuing to help them way beyond the time you actually donated.

I challenge you my friends. If you continually attempt to impact other people's lives in a positive way, you will be rewarded way beyond what you ever expected. Go out and help someone else.  Take the time to impact SOMEONE ELSE's life today.


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nms profile image

nms  says:
8 months ago

true...well said

Benjimester profile image

Benjimester  says:
8 months ago

That's pretty cool. I never thought of listening as a gift. That's a good way to look at it. Nice list man.

badcompany99  says:
8 months ago

Listening is deff a gift, enjoyed that a lot.

R. Blue profile image

R. Blue  says:
8 months ago

Humor is more your bag BC.....maybe mine???

Anyway....well said scott

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WhiskeyChick  says:
8 months ago

You are one very smart man, Scott.

Dink96 profile image

Dink96  says:
8 months ago

Great list, Scott. At the end of the day, I always tell the copy/errand/mail staff in my office, "Thanks for your help today" because they get a lot of grief for a pretty thankless job. This is a well-thought out list. I should post it on my medicine cabinet--or on my forehead!!

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dianacharles  says:
8 months ago

Thank you Scott...a lovely list and one we need to print out and put up on our desk.

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scottaye73  says:
8 months ago

Thank you for your comments, I appreciate it! ~ Scott

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Feline Prophet  says:
8 months ago

Scott - remember those ladies you couldn't understand? Perhaps you you should lavish with them with the gifts you mention here! :P

Just kidding...this is great advice, and so simple to follow too. :)

Erick Smart  says:
8 months ago

These are great suggestions! In too many of our relationships today we look for the quick way out and try to make someone's day by giving them an electronic gadget. But these are all simple things you can do to show you truly care.

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maven101  says:
8 months ago

Wonderful Hub...I love positive Hubs, that speak to our heart....

I would add to your list ENTHUSIASM....I love being around enthusiastic, passionate, articulate, and intellectually connected folks that not only question everything, but provide original solutions...

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Peggy W  says:
8 months ago

If everyone would exercise just a couple of these suggestions each and every day with people they see or with whom they interact, this world would be a much better place. Kudos to you for writing this. Thumbs up!

Jenna.  says:
8 months ago

Well, i think the gift of laughter is a really good one. Its my favorite! Laughing puts people in a better mood even on their worst days. Good idea! :)

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scottaye73  says:
8 months ago

Thank you for your comment Peggy. And Jenna! YOU are in a couple of these...that I know you already read from my blog awhile back...like the smoking write-up. Thank you for checking out dad's writing Jenna.

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Alissa1985  says:
8 months ago

Very good list Scott! And Jenna is right, laughter does put someone in a good mood even on the worst days!

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scottaye73  says:
8 months ago

Thanks Alissa! Just read your "Me Me Me" write-up! Have a great night! ~ Scott

redhatd  says:
8 months ago

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redhatd  says:
8 months ago

great

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Dottie1  says:
8 months ago

These are important gifts, ones that will be remembered and cherished forever! It makes me feel good just reading them!

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baloothebear0731  says:
8 months ago

awesome! any of those things would make my day...ill try them on someone else!

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ThePioneer21  says:
8 months ago

I love this list, especially the compliment one. Recieving a compliment can be the most uplifting thing!

Nice hub:-)

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C.Ferreira  says:
8 months ago

Great list! It reminds me of the movie, Pay It Forward. If we all do a good thing for just one person each day, and they turn around and do the same...eventually we would have nothing but good things happening all around! Well thought out. We all need to keep this in mind...especially in this country.

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G-Ma Johnson  says:
8 months ago

I totally agree with you on this but it also seems to me the acrticle you wrote about Women telling men what they want..wouldn't be necessary at all if all these rules were first given to the wife...LOL...Love ya hun...G-Ma :O) Hugs

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scottaye73  says:
8 months ago

Thank you all for your comments, not sure how I missed all of these without responding? I like the "Golden Rule" and if you don't what that is...let me know. You all are great! ~ Scott

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Shalini Kagal  says:
8 months ago

Great advice to wake up too - it always comes back pressed and overflowing doesn't it - especially when you don't expect anything back!

EcoAsh profile image

EcoAsh  says:
8 months ago

This reminds me of that Liberty Mutual commercial. Where someone does a good deed and someone else sees it so they do a good deed and so on. I like to open doors for other people and greet them with a smile.

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scottaye73  says:
8 months ago

Hey! I was just thinking about that Liberty Mutual commercial Eco, that commercial is great!

Thanks Shalini for your comment. ~ Scott

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livewithrichard  says:
7 months ago

Very insightful hub Scott. Thanks for these gifts.

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scottaye73  says:
7 months ago

Thanks for your comment livewithrichard!

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hsofyan  says:
7 months ago

We have a mind, energy and money. We can give some of that.

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Staci-Barbo7  says:
6 months ago

Scott, your suggestions in this Hub represent some of the best elements of forging good relationships . .  through 'connecting' with others.

may555  says:
2 months ago

Helping others is a virtue,at the same time we also get friendly return so that the good social environment come into being.At last all the people get the good for the good tradition!

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