Do you spend most of you waking life with your phone within arms reach "just" in case he calls? Tip one, he probably doesn't like you.

Does he call you on a Tuesday night but never on a Friday? He probably doesn't like you.

Have you found yourself turning down plans with your girlfriends so that you can be open for him if he calls and wait around until Sunday morning wondering what he was doing all weekend and why he didn't call you? Well... he probably doesn't like you.

No doubt, if this is you, you have probably even played "He Loves Me, He Loves Me Not". But instead of a dandelion in the yard you opted for a bouquet of flowers and said to yourself... "Well, I will just do it one time and then I will know the answer." Next thing you know, it's best 2 out of 3, then 3 out of 5 and so on until you have finally got the result you were looking for; then before the nights end, you have started all over again!

And for why? Because... He probably doesn't like you!

you will find the right guy for you using E-Harmony type dating sites but even then, it is a dead end street because as it turned out, he really didn't like you. And then there are those sites that women go to looking for clues as to whether or not he is cheating on you, how to improve your sex life or worse you become a stalker and sites that insist you must look hot to get the right guy and when that doesn't work you begin to think there is something wrong with you.

So, let's get real. If you did do all those things, then your are right, he probably doesn't like you because he probably doesn't know you. That is the bottom line.

Well, what if what? If he likes you, he will call you. Sure, there are probably some circumstances that prevent him from calling right away, one of those things being the traditional dating rules; wait two days before you call, mumbo jumbo. These are called games. If you really like someone then call!

If he doesn't call back, don't keep calling him. Don't even call back 3 days after the first time you called because if he really liked you, you would be on his mind and I am 99.98% positive that there is no way in Hell he would miss your call. If there was some unforeseen reason as to why he could not call you, I am also 99.98% sure that he will call you as soon as he can.

You can drive your mind nuts about the "what ifs" all you want to but the only "what ifs" that are really guaranteed to make him think twice about whether or not to call you back is how many times you called him. And don't get too excited if he does finally call you back just to say, "stop calling me."

This is a one way street. If you like him, call him. If he likes you he will call you. I don't think anyone in the world whose curiosity will not persuade you to call and find out if they are interested in you too. Really, what have you got to lose? There aren't any "probablies" in the event that he does like you.

One call, that's all!

Did you call him on a Monday to find out if he had any plans for the weekend?  Unless you got some kick ass seats to a ball game or something, why on Earth would you call on a Monday to find out what he is doing 5-6 days later?  I don't know what I am doing on Wednesday let alone Friday unless I got some kicks ass seats to a show or something. 

If you guys are dating and he always seems to call you on a Tuesday for a date but never ask you out for a Friday or Saturday, chances are... he probably doesn't like you.  He might like you as a "friend" but if he isn't willing to bring you out and introduce you to his friends then it means that he doesn't know if his friends will like you.  If this is the case, he really doesn't like you.

What days he ask you out on aren't really that important, I must say.  But the sole logic is,  if he really likes you, he will introduce you to his friends.  His friends are not the relationship; the relationship is between you and him so what his friends think is not important.   But of course,  give yourselves some time to get to know each other alone.  Anyone who really likes you will want their friends to know you too.  After all, if he is planning on keeping you around then obviously you will meet his friends. 

If not then... he probably doesn't like you as much as you think.

If he didn't call you all week, then what makes you think he is going to call you on Friday night? I know of one reason why he might, so unless you just met him on a Thursday, don't hold your breath. You're either a booty call or a back up plan, one of the two and if this is the case... oh, he might "like" you but really, if I must... He doesn't like you!

So play "He Loves Me, He Loves Me Not" till your heart is content but one thing is certian. If you guys like each other, there wont be anything standing in the way. With that said... Then He probably does like you. :D

So be yourself.  Doing what you do naturally is the best way to let him know you, not who you think you should be.  There aren't any guarantees that he will like you but you can guarantee yourself that if he really does like you, then he likes you for who you are and that is what matters.