Generally speaking, men prefer action rather than talk. But if he had been so action to it, we probably have to wait until the climax of next year. How right he said, but would not let him upset or irritated? We must learn certain skills.
Some scenes took place in bed with us imagined was not correct. But if a man say so, they may have hurt his pride, and lead to negative emotions, "So, I went to sleep" so that the original romantic night night into a fit of anger. Only the right way, and his communication is it possible to change the status quo. Sexual psychologist if Al - Hella a problem for us to explain a problem.

The first time, he carelessly sloppy play

If only once or twice, you will not say anything, but in men there, it can easily become a habit. So you bitterly to think, "he did not want me to get pleasure!" This type of comment is very easily converted to blame. Because you want him to guess your wishes, he could not guess, makes you feel unhappiness, so your tone will become blunt and harsh.

If you want to change his imperceptibly, the best approach is to say he was having sex during the course of a number of assumptions: "If you so, I would very much like it." You can whisper to explain to him: "If a man's sexual impulses from the visual, a woman is through touch and hearing. "If you treat him with the tone of voice lessons, he would low self-esteem to believe that they are not a good lover. This does not help solve the problem.

He was always hard and fast

In exchange for some time, you found his love of the process step by the same or little change. Looking for a quiet evening with him to talk about this issue, preferably in his home, so let him feel more comfortable with a number. You let him talk about his sexual fantasies, and then suggested that he try it with you. If he is not an absolute selfish ghost, he will immediately ask you the same problem.

You can also honestly told him that he was not a person in love, so he should listen to your feelings. Suggested a number of new positions, and often asked for his feelings, so he would not think you blame him. However, be careful not to go the other extreme: habits, customs benefits, some of the traditional posture is a pleasure guaranteed.

He could not erection

You took a half-day enthusiasm, rubbing, kissing, stimulate, he was indifferent, you have quickly worn out. This situation is being tortured mad, you should exchange with him. Approach must be gentle, because this question directed at the dignity of his men. Dialogue needed sense of distance, as this issue is not directly related to you. A woman can love a man who does not get along very well, but this is not a lover, a roommate. Best not to let him up now.

Perhaps he has health problems, medicines can be solved, if not, he needs to look for expert advice. Of love so that you can continue. But do not play himself into his psychiatrist, do not do abrupt psychological analysis.

He was very clumsy, very impatient

He also stroke you, but not always where no light not heavy, to battle each edgy, like I burnt red of the wok. Can not go on like this any longer.

In order not to hurt his self-esteem, you can say to him: "Not all women are like a way that some women do not attach importance to stroke (the way you are sure he is not so bad), but you are the kind of prefer tenderness of the a woman. "This is a sandwich rule: Give him a compliment, a criticism of outer zone.

He never did not take the initiative to have sex

Whether you wear a T-shaped underwear or sexy underwear, you do not wants to turn his attention away from the football match on television transferred. You feel every time you are asked, and he has no interest to you. Usually we tend to ignore or deny this issue: more than a desire than men, which is the number of women who are very angry, and we all think of the woman from the men came to have sex.

And his communication is the only way to solve the problem, but should pay attention to skills, he is not a machine, not having sex at all times, but you still a bit worried for him, his body needs to be decoded. Must be the avoidance of doubt in his mind to other people, or crying for you to complain that he had no desire to.

I have never (or almost) never had orgasm

Not his no talent, but you almost do not remember the last access time for the climax is what. Said to him, you always feel disappointed to not let him pretend to orgasm, it is not easy.

You do not have to say to him, there are nine of ten you are not satisfied, you can simply say you are not the climax every time, in general, women take longer time to obtain orgasm, and you need time to women than the general longer (so you can put the responsibility on a number of football to its own body), so he needs to be patient.

His premature ejaculation

For the first time, do you think he was too excited, but the second, third, or so, you never fight no more than five minutes. Criticized his sexuality is very dangerous: "The young man, three minutes is too short?" If he was also secretly worried that such criticism will make him even more self-esteem.

The only way is to give him encouragement, told him that even if you do not have thoroughly enjoyed themselves, but soon a man ejaculate very normal physical reaction. Extension of time to ejaculation was not born, but need to learn and train. He could practice by herself, so that he need not worry about your pleasure. Let him focus on his own feelings, especially the upcoming climax moment. So that when you make love, he can inform you in a timely manner, and then you help him delay ejaculation to come.
 

I want him to help me achieve the sexual fantasies

You in bed is very harmonious, but your mind is always sexual fantasies have no chance to achieve, you would like to tell him to try. You worry that he does not understand your idea, he would angrily that you want to replace him, and do you think sex is boring with him. If you do not want to have a similar misunderstanding in the wording of the proposal put forward clear. Said to him, a woman will also have a very specific sexual fantasies, even though he was a great lover, but you still hope that he can cope with your self-willed.

Watch out, let him help you achieve all sexual fantasies is a mistake. Some ideas should stay in your secret garden.

He wanted to do something you do not want to do something

Some of his demands make you feel very abnormal, very embarrassed. You do not want him as a rigid woman, are you willing to let him feel happy, so you think it is your fault.

Told him: to accept all his proposals are not proof of love. You understand some of his desire, but some things you did not want to do. You need time and love proof. If you want to try, but was not into it, let him, and so you, until you have the desire. In particular, do not be too stubborn. Love is also a compromise. You can consult experts when necessary to eliminate some psychological barrier.