Dating is not fun when your not finding the right person. Here are some tips to keep in mind when you are looking to find that special man.

The " I can't look at you in the eyes"

The way his body reacts when your around can tell you alot on whether he's interested or not. If he's not looking at you or is not giving you any eye contact. He's just not that into you. If he seems distant or if he doesn't really seem to bring up any conversation and you're the only one talking, then move on honey!

The "I don't know how I feel"

Even if it's been a week, a month, 3 months a year, if he still has talked or even brought up the conversation of what you mean to him. I suggest yet again to move on...Why you ask, because if he has realized by now that he doesn't have love or any other feelings for you then it's not worth your time. If he's into you, he'll tell you from everyday if you're lucky. If a man is really into you he'll let you know and he'll show it to you in more ways than one.

He hasn't called you yet!

He hasn't called you yet whether you've been chatting for weeks online or whether you've already been on a date with him. You are waiting by the phone and.....Nothing! Move on, he's just not that into you. If he's really into you, he'll want to talk to you on the phone and not only by email or chat. Chat is the new phone today but if he really wants you he'll pick up the phone and say hello.

He's "I'm too busy to meet up with you"

If he keeps post poning or gives you an excuse everytime you are intending to meet up, guess what he's just not that into you. Why?

Because if he's into you he will want to see you constantly. He will not have to find a reason not to see you. If he wants to be with you, he'll make the time happen. He'll cancel whatever else he had planned to be with you. It's happened to me. My first date with one of my ex's, he cancelled his plans to finally go on a date with me.

The too good to be true,

It's been great since you first met. Showing and putting all the right moves on you. Knows what to say and when to say it. Brings you to dinner, pays for your dinner and kisses you goodnight. This can go on for a week or two, next thing you know, he disappeared. No longer the same guy. Basically got what he wanted but didn't really find what he was looking for and now moves on to the next girl. Guess what...he's just not that into you!

He stood me up!

Some women give men a second chance with this one. Let me tell you if he stands you up...he's just not that into you. He does not respect the fact that you as well, had other things to do. Your time is not important to him. You should really not give this one a second chance. If it works on the second time..good for you. Just keep in mind, some things don't change and this can happen again further along in the relationship.

Just keep these things in mind. Stop obessessing over something that's not there. It's not good for you and and it's not worth your time. You worth more than that. Don't let anyone make you think that your not good enough. There's someone for everyone. Don't worry it will come to you when it is meant to happen. As the old saying goes..everything happens for a reason.

Regards,

The Blindateshop.

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