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Henna and self Mutilating; Harm Reduction

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By lyricsingray


Henna Saves Lives-England's Treatment Working

Katie, a talented Hubber here, gave me the inspiration and permission to talk about this and had also not heard of these treatments. So if you are reading this and it applies to you, please you must read Self Injury by Katie E39 it is one of the most accurate and compassionate pieces I have read on this disorder.


Marriage Counseling?, Chemotherapy and baldness? Surgery? Self Mutilation?Tribal Rituals? Event Tattooing? Hair enhancer? Scarring Solutions? Hindu Weddings?Marker for Radiology? Body Art? Sex? Skin Graphing?Cooling treatments for sun effects? Celebrating new Births? And BODY ART.


How do I know this, specifically with self injury? I have a Borderline Personality Disorder which comes with a lifetime of self cutting and mutilating and I also abused drugs via IV/self administered needles because very quickly for me the needle became an addiction in that of itself.


Some words to describe this illness of cutting are; pain, sight, blood, scars, isolation, secrets, shame, no self worth, lack of self esteem, precision, relief, usually past abuse, mutilation, loneliness, addiction and control lastly and shockingly the release of pain. Mental and emotional pain. Katie describes it in her Hub where I am going to describe this brilliant treatment I learned of a few years ago


I was still cutting and causing myself to bleed as my coping mechanism as well as use needles full or empty to create my own different pain. One I could control and one that would let me escape what issues I needed to for most of my life.


My boyfriend feeling helpless, started to research treatments, for this as you can imagine his concern and the need to want to help me.


Ill back up a bit. What is Henna? Henna, as used, is a natural dirt based paste once mixed with water. It is 100% natural and comes from a flowering plant and the sole species in a line of genus plants from the Lawsonia family of Lythraceae.


This means nothing, better described; I tell you it's a thin mud that stains in an orange, light brown color for approximately 6 weeks.


This is why Henna tattooing is beautiful when done properly. My boyfriend however found a site in England that treated self injury by switching the obsession to Henna tattooing. By using it very similar the same way without any damage. But for me, came an incredible mess. Easy enough, have a Henna sheet you can work on.


I first was ecstatic and instead of hurting myself used a needle top bottle of henna and began to create. That first time I spent 15 hours and messed and stained myself everywhere. But I understood the concept. However it was a long 6 weeks.


The intricate designs and hours of body painting I couldn't believe took my needle and knife cravings away. Then because it is mud once it dries you have to pick it off as though you were pulling and picking away pain. Once that was removed a stain of your design almost resembled blood by it's color and imaginary markings.

I have since learned to Henna where my skin is not exposed and sometimes will do a tattoo bracelet or sandal foot design.


There are so many medical and physiological, beauty and ritual uses for Henna now having a developing for the past 9000 years. They have traced some of these Henna rituals back as far as 1550 BC in Egypt where it was used for medical purposes with prayer.


My prayer has been answered. I have not hurt myself in 2 years. I may not be a special artist in this area but I'll settle for messy stains rather than messy scars.


Thank you Henna, I think we will be together a very long time.


If you are suffering from self injury, try this, I promise you it doesn't make much sense on paper but it makes the world of sense on your body.


A Rare Art Form

Henna can be treatment for intimacy and act as a trusting massage
Henna can be treatment for intimacy and act as a trusting massage
Henna can make beautiful intricate designs on a woman's hands considered sexy in many parts of the world and bracelets are very popular as well.
Henna can make beautiful intricate designs on a woman's hands considered sexy in many parts of the world and bracelets are very popular as well.
Hours can be spent crafting instead of cutting
Hours can be spent crafting instead of cutting
The free book of designs can guide you through attaining the art form and it's many designs
The free book of designs can guide you through attaining the art form and it's many designs
once again, a true art form
once again, a true art form

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DReveal  says:
4 months ago

This is very interesting, Kimberly! Thanks for sharing.

Chris   says:
4 months ago

Great article, it's amazing that you haven't harmed yourself for 2 years. Congratulations!

NanaDoe  says:
3 months ago

Kimberly this is a really interesting writing. I had never heard of this before..If it helps others Wow..!! Amazing.. What a miracle. How many many people could be helped including you.. I will have some for you Oct...2nd.. kisses and hugs..me

dina  says:
2 months ago

you are Ingenious my dear. what an interesting concept that makes sooooooo much sense. you inspire everyone that comes in contact with you. congratulations--2 years no cutting

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lyricsingray  says:
2 months ago

Thanks Dina, and yes, over two years now!

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jacklhasa  says:
2 months ago

it's fascinating for me that this has worked for you. I've known so many cutters in my life, how many could have been helped with this, I wonder. I'm gonna have to make some friends look into it. Thanks again for a great hub!

-JL

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lyricsingray  says:
2 months ago

Jack, It really does work,and I hope and pray it can help some of your friends! Cheers, Kimberly- ps- can't hurt to try

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rmcrayne  says:
2 months ago

Kim this is fascinating! Do you have an article or web reference on this?

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lyricsingray  says:
2 months ago

No,I just saw one mention on google few years ago from a Hospital in England and the rest was me trial and error. I'lll try to find out-actually I had told Chris and he has a really good memory - he'll know - I'll get back to you,so glad you read this, thanks

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rmcrayne  says:
2 months ago

Cool. I'm really curious about this. I had so many kids who self mutalated when I worked adolescent psychiatry.

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rmcrayne  says:
2 months ago

OOPS! Delete this one. I guess my computer was slow!

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lyricsingray  says:
2 months ago

RM I'll email you for sure! Thanks

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