Many girls have had close relationships were they rely on their lover for support and confurt of their boyfriend, not expecting that the worst is about to happen, then suddenly the whole world starts to crumble, a boyfriend has said he needs space for now and that the relationship need to be on ice, for a while. now all of the support and love is out the door. you are left with pain, confusion wondering what just happened? you might even go as fair as to blame your self when it could be that it wasn't your fault to begin with, it could be that your ex boyfriend wants space because he need time to work out some family problems, or maybe he can't handle commitment, or is feeling very unsure about himself and doesn't know how to except it or approach you about it.

At this point it probably is best if communication is kept at minimum, you might be asking why would I want to do that my whole world has come apart? let me explain, for what ever reason he has decided to put the relationship on hold their is could be allot of pressure on him right now and putting the relationship on hold could be his way of relieving himself of some pressure.

The second reason to cool your jets right now is what if he is taking you for granted, and looking for some one Else, I hope that this in not the case but it could be, by limiting the conversation you are doing to things one you are showing him that it's his loss not yours.

and two you are the strong one and not a needed person, this could pay diffidence down the road, Now in the mean time you can take some time and grieve pamper your self a Little feel sorry for yourself it's ok, but not to much you have work to do.

Want to now is keep your self busy why? be-cause it will keep your mind off of how to get MY boy friend back, and by keeping your distance he will start to miss you and maybe even appreciate you, in the mean time you are going get ready for your grand reintroduction to him, by this I mean you are going to look the sexiest you have ever looked with cutest dress that you can find, like I said keep allow profile about this don't let the secret out make sure you tell your friends not to say anything to any one about what you are planning you don't want ot let the cat out of the bag just yet until you are ready to spring your trap.

when the time arrives and keep in mind it may take a while for him to come around so be cool, ok, now the time has arrived your conversations with him have been just small talk and kept to a minimum, now it time to move ahead, if he hasn't asked you out on a date by know then you might have to arrange a meeting place somewhere cozy were doesn't have any distractions, you will also want to flirt a little bit with him as well not to much just enough to get the reaction you want, keep the conversation lite and do some reminiscing with him about all the goo times you two have had together, don't bring up the relationship keep that on ice, just keep it lite and fun, if he still has a flame for you he will be thrilled to see you and you will get the answer you have Bean wanting to know does he still care about me?

don't jump the gun and rush in you need to protect your heart for a while, also by taking it slow you will have a better chance of him feeling comfurtablewith you. these are just the first steps towards getting My boyfriend back, stay the course and every thing will work out naturally

It has been my plessure to bring this article to you I hope that you have gained some wisdone from it's content and I wish you all the best, with your life.

sincerely Kevin