Look here, I’m not one for sugar coating matters of the heart. No, I rather tell it to you like it is. The only one stopping YOU from looking or feeling confident and sexier is YOU! That's right, YOU! The sooner you realize you're YOUR own worse enemy in all this, the easier it is to look sexier and feel more confident. Looking better and feeling sexier is a state of mind. There are no quit fixes to take care of that. Only you can make yourself feel more confident.

Yes, there are some simple reminders that can help you along your personal journey to feeling sexier. However, at the end of day you are still responsible for making that happen. Sometimes a little extra make up or a new black dress will help you in this endeavor. Nevertheless, if you have a serious problem with self-esteem; no one can write you a cure all prescription for that. It just doesn’t exist.

• The number one rule of thumb to remember is that feeling sexy is a state of mind. It has nothing to do with your dress size.
• Looking sexy has nothing to do with your age. It all in your attitude. Having the right attitude goes along way. Matter of fact, I think it is one of the most misused, or under-rated statements made. The way people see you is different from the way you see yourself. People have no idea how old you are unless YOU tell'em. So get over that part about yourself, and start acting like how you feel appropriately. Be strong and confident. Yes, we all grow a little older each and everyday. I used to have a real problem about my age. Not anymore. Everyday morning when I look in the mirror, I say to myself, "Hello Beautiful!" I think you might surprise yourself on just how good this will eventually make you feel.
  
• Quit looking for others to draw self-assurance and self-approval from. People, especially women have way too many jealousy issues to mulled around with. So stopping dressing for them, and start dressing sexy for yourself. Pamper your appearance with a sprinkle of self-esteem, and you just might be surprised at what YOU and others will see. It could start equaling up to a whole new, sexier you.
• Throw way all the diet fads and crash diet recipe mixes. Go outside a sweep off your sidewalk for exercise today. Starting eating healthier. You know what it takes; lesser portion size, more fruits and veggie's, only water and lots of it, and a little more daily activity to living life right. You will be amazed at how much better you'll feel with less refined sugar, less grease and more water. The body is an incredible bounce back machine.

If you think that by adding new thong panties, smaller bra sizes, tighter fitting blouses or wife beater's tank tops is a quick fit for yourself- I'm here to tell you that your wrong.  Moreover than that is the fact, that feeling sexier doesn't have nothing to do with tighter fitting clothes. (If you ask men, plenty of them will tell you that they like a little more wrapping about the packages. It leaves more for their imaginations.) It is all about what how you feel inside!