How Can You Tell If a Guy Is Really Interested in You or Not- Better Than Blue's Clues

As this particular Hub unfolds, I want to make it very clear that I am not a love connection expert by any means, however, I have been on the opposite side wondering the same things about a woman and trying to pick up on the signs that would allow me to make the next move without getting rejected.

Rejection is something that we all fear at some point in our lives, and what a better way to know and to see the signs to prevent this from happening to you. If a guy really likes you, it should be as clear as the sky, and if he doesn't you should know this too. So, lets get right into it..

The first way to absolutely know if a guy is interested in you is in the pursuit. From experience, if I'm actually pursuing a woman then that is my way of saying that I am very interested. For example, if you find that a guy is calling you at least once, twice or multiple times per day, this is a pursuit. The same goes for texting, emailing, or just wanting to be around you all the time.

Ladies, this is your first clue in actually knowing if a guy likes you or not. All men tend to have other things to do in their lives, such as watch football or hang out with the guys, however, if they are sacrificing that time to be with you, this is a good sign for you.

 Alot of times, we men have a hard time of expressing our feelings towards a woman.  Avoiding verbal gestures is our main pick, but doing out of the ordinary gestures is more like us.  In the beginning, this is more like us but as time goes on, don't be surprised if those out of the ordinary gestures turn into verbal ones.

So what do I mean by these non-verbal gestures?

• Joking around with you
• Flirting
• Sending E-cards to Your email
• Texting you with :) all the time
• Buying you something you didn't expect, etc...

These are just of the few for you to look for if you want to know for sure if a guy likes you or not.  You should be able to tell if these gestures start to perpetuate by the many repetitions that you see.  Don't waste your time on a guy if you are not feeling any of these things.  If you are doing more of these things than he is, it's time to move on. 

 QT or Quality time is what all women adore.  When you find that a man is willing to spend ample time with you, he is very interested.  No only that but when he breaks the ice and ask you out on a date, this should be a definite sign.  Now the ball is in your court to seal the deal by letting him take you out so you can get all your questions answered wink:)

If you happen to go out on this wonderful date, watch for more clues such as his dress style, his body language, and speech.  Does he look you in the eye when he speaks to you?  Is he wanting to be affectionate?  Does he smile at you all the time?  Look for these and you won't go wrong.

Hopefully, you will have success now and in the future when trying to decide if a guy is really interested in you or not.  Keep in mind, that as a man, I've done these same things to let a woman know that I am very much interested in her.  I am sure that most men have followed these same patterns and more in their lifetime.