To be in a relationship is really a very wonderful feeling. You get to spend time with the person you love and do everything together and you feel as though she is the one for you, then suddenly the break up comes and you are in shock. She says many things as reasons an excuses that this relationship is not going to work out for both of you. So you are in a state of shock and panic and can only think of "how do i get my girlfriend back". You start pleading and begging with her that you will change and that things are going to work out. Or worse, you start to threaten her using manipulative ways. This rarely if not never ever works in getting your girlfriend to get back to you. Why? The reason is because these are all "push" factors.

Basically in our human relationships, whenever one person is pushing, the other person will be pulling. Call it a cat and mouse game if you would, but this is really how relationship works. Think about it - have your girlfriend in the past ever became very relaxed in the relationship in a sense where she starts to let go because she knows you will never abandon her? This is because you are constantly in the push mode so she is enjoying the ride and she relaxes. Or have your girlfriend ever suddenly feel tensed and keep asking why you never said "i love you" to her or say you miss her and all that lovey dovey stuff? Chances are all relationships go through this stage where one chases and the other goes cold, and vice versa.

This will be the basis of our psychological strategy on this "how do i get my girlfriend back" guide. Now, so if you are constantly in push mode, you have to press the abort button immediately and switch to pull mode. So what is pull mode? Basically anything that does not show you being needy. The following are examples of psychological tricks i used to get my girlfriend to come back to me:-

1) I did not call her at all, and when she did, i made a point to really make it a quick call and tell her that i was busy or is on the other line with another girl.

2) Going to lots of dates.

3) Going clubbing with lots of new friends and more importantly new girls.

4) Called her once in a blue moon to ask her for advice on where to bring a date of yours for dinner. This really got her mind thinking like crazy.

5) Acting very friendly with her as though nothing happened between you both and sounding really happy.

These are just a few tricks which i have used and they really do work. What these really do is make your ex girlfriend think - I have just broken up with him, so why is he still so happy? Then her head starts to go into and overdrive mode wondering whether you have found someone new. These are just a few of my "how do i get my girlfriend back" tricks.

If you are interested to find out even more powerful psychological tricks to get her back, Click Here. These tricks will guarantee that you will get your girlfriend back but in order to make a relationship last takes lots of patience, effort and understanding. Next, this how do i get my girlfriend back guide will help you understand what went wrong in your relationship to begin with. Good luck with everything. I hope this helps!