Men & women keep score in a relationship differently.

Knowing how the differences of how men and women keeps a running score card in a relationship is the key secret to not only having a very happy and fulfilling relationship, but it also critical to understanding how you can get a failed relationship back on track.

• Both men and women keep a subconscious "point system" that reflects their own mind set and gender specific thinking on the score card.
• -Men award more points if an action is BIG, and less points if an action is small.
• -Women give one point no matter how big or small the act.

When You possess this understanding, it will improve ALL your relationships tremendously.

Big problems will arise when we are trying to win points because we typically use our own "gender mindset" type of thinking. When you use this knowledge combined with a strategy of methods you can have a very powerful resource to Getting Your Ex Back.

The process of score keeping can be understood more clearly when you start to examine the fundamental way a man and woman compare tally cards and score sheets.

Men think big actions earn them big points, while women on the other hand give 1 point for any action no matter how large or small.

A woman will constantly be "racking up points" in her mind all day long for simple acts such as keeping house, cooking the dinner, picking up after her man, caring for the kids, give her partner a back massage, etc etc.

Men will relate all these trivial actions as low points or sometimes none at all. To a man the big actions earn them large points and doing small things earn them literally zero points in their mind. Buying her an expensive piece of diamond or gold jewelry typically translates in a mans brain as HUGE points.

The problem is the miscalculations made by both genders. Arguments tend to build up because each gender is thinking of their own point score by using their own gender specific thinking. Make any sense?

A woman if given the choice would choose to have many small and consistent actions of love instead of one big thing such as expensive and lavish gifts. Simple thanks and appreciation for her daily actions. Unexpected phone calls during the day to say I love you. Thoughtful notes, or simple flowers once in a while. A card, or some thoughtful gesture of cheesy romance like a box of heart shaped chocolates will go a long way with a woman.

Men on the other hand will remember a BIG action that their partner did because of the way they typically keep score themselves. If their partner were to do something as big such as buying them tickets to their favorite game or concert, a man will remember this for life. It will be boasted and bragged about to his friends about how his partner got him tickets to the big game! We men will bring it up over and over again and carry on about it and NEVER forget.

Understanding how the gender specific mind sets work for keeping points will help you not only keep your own relationships thriving and successful, but they can assist with getting an ex back as well.

Many cases more then not a break up has happened which stemmed usually from a "blow up" where both parties involved are arguing about some topic which usually boils down to this point system.

Example:

-woman: racks up points all week long with simple acts like we discussed. 1 here 1 there 1 here and so on.

-men: racks up points in some fashion he believes was big

The Argument:

-woman: "why don't you buy me flowers anymore? You don't appreciate me"

-man: "WHAT?! I just bought you a gold necklace last month!!"

Does this sound all to familiar?

Knowing the score card of your partner will help you understand what you have been doing completely wrong when you work to earn points and will help you get your ex back if this miscalculation has caused things to "Blow Up."

Working a method of techniques and strategies can be powerful "magic" to getting your ex back.

The Magic of Making Up will help you understand the gender mind set and use some tricks and magic that helps resolve some of these trivial misunderstandings that may assist you to get your ex back