Attracting men always came naturally to me... I was always dating, and mostly having fun, even though I am no Cindy Crawford.  Now I am a married lady with kids - so my dating days are in the past.  Of course I still work on staying attractive to my husband and I have learned over the years what makes men tick, and what makes women attractive to them.

Learning how to attract men is easier than you may think.  You don't have to be gorgeous, and you don't have to be the life of the party.  You just need to know how to give the right signals.  I'll take you through it step by step.

It's really easy for me to say that being confident is the key to learning how to attract men. It is such a blanket statement that it is almost a cop out, but let me explain...

Most women expect men to act like women. They will tell you they don't, but they do. Men - in general - do not pick up on signals or clues that a woman is attracted to them. At least not the kind of subtle clues that women can read with ease.

This doesn't mean that you need to ask every man you are interested in out, but you need to give him signals that he can read so that he knows it is safe to ask you out. I've found a great video that explains exactly how to do that.  At first he sounds like he is talking to men, but give it about a minute.  The advice in this video for women is priceless.

If you have watched the above video, you now know how to get a man to notice you.  The next step is getting the first date so that you can learn more about the guy you are interested in.

The key here is to not be coy.  Ladies, playing 'hard to get' usually doesn't work very well.  Men need to know where they stand with you.  They don't like rejection any more than you do.  So make it easy for them to ask you out.  You won't regret it.  Here is a video that shows you how.

Many women also find that men attracting pheromones work well to help give them the confidence to be attractive.  I put them in my secret weapon category, because the good ones work not only to attract men, but also give you a boost of confidence.

The way that pheromone perfumes work is by using subconscious chemical signals to create attraction.  Some people view this as cheating,  but if you use it them in combination with some of the techniques shown in the videos, they can give you a real edge in the attraction game.

Learning how to attract men gets easier with practice.  So take the techniques that you have learned and go practice them.

If you are shy, practice with people you know, or get a group of your girlfriends together and go to the mall, or starbucks, and start flirting with men in line or the guy waiting on you at the counter.

You can do it!