The question about how to attract men is a fairly new one and yet it is also as old as time itself, because although in the cave man days there were not books and television programs available about how to attract men, there was still a need for women to know how to attract themselves a healthy strong protector and provider…their survival depended on it!

From the cave man days where healthy child bearing hips and the ability to ignite his carnal desire were of prime importance, to Victorian times where a healthy dowry may have played a big part in snagging your man, not much has changed. Men are still attracted by their carnal desire. Healthy childbearing hips are still an indicator though perhaps unconsciously that a woman has strong reproductive capabilities enabling the man to spread his seed and continue his bloodline.

A happy countenance is indicative of a healthy mind and body. If you were not lucky enough in Victorian times to have had a large and attractive dowry, a happy countenance may well have secured you a man, but having both would have secured you a very fine catch indeed!

Whatever the year and whatever the fashion the fundamental quality that attracts a man to a woman is her natural grace and beauty. No matter your age or your dress size you will have men at your beck and call if you can harness these innate qualities. Every woman has them, though some may have forgotten them along their life’s journey so far. Lack of confidence and fear of rejection, are states of mind that have been learned most often during childhood, but they can be unlearned, simply put aside as an experience of the past and let go completely.

Women who know how to attract men know that they are desirable; they know that men find them attractive and this knowledge gives them the strength and confidence to flirt with and attract men. So, before you start flicking through the pages of magazines hunting for make-up, clothing and pheromone induced perfumes to attract the opposite sex, do yourself a favor and start with the most basic, most fundamental quality that will attract men to you – your inner beauty, strength and confidence.

Think about Marilyn Monroe for a moment, perhaps one of the most famous sex goddesses of her time. She was certainly not a dress size zero, in fact she had an ample helping of curves and possibly even cellulite beneath her sexy, silky gowns, but men found her to be very attractive.

Find a role model of your own, someone who has similar qualities to yourself, but someone who knows how to attract men and take a good look at their demeanor, their gestures, their all round manner. Look for ways in which you can ‘model’ their behavior and duplicate their success with men.

If you are lacking confidence or self-esteem I would also recommend doing a search for self-hypnosis audio downloads. Choose a quiet moment during the day or better still before going to sleep at night to allow the positive messages to permeate your dreams. Soon you will be filled with confidence and ready to start attracting men.