I am a single mother of 5. It is learned. Your instincts for survivial will kick in To what degree you have to decide.

patience is one lesson you must learn. Patence for yourself and the child.

prioritize your daily life. remember that you are that childs foundation to everything in life and this is the biggest job you have ever applied for. if you don't take care of you who is going to take care of the child.

Always remember. in the beging of each day. you start off with Giving praise to God and then you dress you for the day. ( Must get up before the child)

You end your day with praising God and undressing you ( go to bed after the child.) quality time for yourself is a number one rule.