The life of any couple of the human being is always repeated through their sons and daughters.After the marriage of a man and a woman get, they have babies, then they always do the same like what their parents did with them when they were little sons and daughters.

The clearest idea in that matter is the fact that parents always want their babies to be better than them. Namely, to live happier than them, and to have more chances than them. However, there is always something different, they always keen to avoid all the mistakes which faced them by their parents ,while they growing them up in the past. So, what are the main strategies that would lead to be the perfect parents?


In fact, you should learn, realize and understand all the needs, the abilities and the psychological features of your child. Educational experts have declared the fact that, it is from the very beginning , the child usually absorbs his main standards from his parents. That is why the ethics and traditions of the son and the father are often the same. As a father or a mother, you should realize the fact that anytime you would specialize whatever period of time to be with your child, this period is of great value in itself.


You may think that all the actions, the deeds, the things you would talk about with him and even the movements are just postulates for you as an adult. But for your child, it is not like that, because these are the new skills, the new thoughts and the new traits up on which his personality will be built. You will find that he will gain the perfect style of talking and he will also come to realize the intelligence skills and the social skills, through these periods of time in which you stay with him.


Another important thing, is that you should always be keen to represent the perfect model that your child would follow and acquire all his ethics and values from him. Consequently, you should be careful in all your actions and deeds specially with him because the child often has a strong sense of observation. So, don’t ask him to stick to some morals while you don’t stick to them, he would notice that.


There is also an important idea in that matter, which is the Arabic proverb; ( you can’t grant, what you don’t possess ). Hence, you should try to gain or learn the skills that you intend to give to your child, or at least you can get some of them. In fact, the distance between the ignorant child and the talented one, that you want to have, is the same between what you are now and what you always wish to be. So, you should make all the required changes as quickly as you can.


Finally, we want to refer to the fact that every father has an image to the future of his child, but the real image would probably be completely different. So, you should not force him to follow the path that you have drawn. You should also remember the fact that, these are your own dreams not his. You just have to show him the way and give him the standards then he should make his choice on his own. There are a lot of scientific educational theories, that have been proved to be successful, therefore, the parents should study them through reading, the internet or through the educational institutes then try to apply these theories on their children.