Fluff talk is one of the best and easiest ways to flirt with women. Learning how to flirt with women requires an understanding of fluff talk and how to do it right.

So, what is fluff talk? Fluff talk means, basically, talking about nothing. BUT fluff talk is also interesting. So you can't talk about the weather or the traffic or other boring, meaningless things. At the same time, while I would love to talk about Machiavelli or Plato with women, doing so with someone you just met is also not a good idea.

The key to interesting fluff talk is to direct the conversation towards FEELINGS. Feelings, not facts. Facts are boring. They make her feel absolutely nothing. Use the conversation to talk about feelings. For example:

"You: So, what did you do yesterday?

Her; Oh, I cooked a big dinner.

You: You enjoy cooking alot?

Her: Yes.

You: I know what you mean. I love cooking. What's the best part of cooking? What feels the best?

Her: Blah blah blah

You: Blah blah blah about cooking."

And so on. You can sort of see how this works.

One GREAT way to initiate fluff talk is to use this line: "So, what's your story?"

You can use this right after an opener or saying "Hi."

This question usually gets women talking about how they know the host or what they do for a living or what they do for fun. Whatever they say, their response tells you what's important to them. They tell you about their job? That's important to them. They talk about the host? Their social life and friends are important to them. You can use this to steer the conversation towards this topic -- keeping in mind that you want to talk FEELINGS, not interview-style questions about her job.

If they can't think of a response or look confused, just move on. Why waste time on people who are either too boring or too slow to respond? If you absolutely must talk to someone who can't answer such an open-ended question, then you can always pick out something their wearing and say "so what's the story behind those earrings?" A bit less effective and useful, but at least it's something.

Remember that if the conversation slows down, don't stand there awkwardly hoping for her to pick it back up again. Just say "well, it was a pleasure meeting you, I'm sure we'll run into each other again" and move on to someone else (if you're in a group venue).

A few things to remember NOT TO DO when it comes to fluff talk... DO NOT:

• Talk about your personal problems.
• Appear desperate.
• Talk about anything negative.
• Complain.
• Drink too much. If you're going to, don't bother talking to women.
• Talk about your ex-girlfriends/wives/partners.
• Brag about anything. If you have impressive accomplishments, she will find out about them without you telling her.
  
• Talk about religion, politics, or conspiracy theories.
• Act like someone you aren't.