If you and your old flame have mutually decided that you want to get back together, such a decision shouldn't be made lightly and without careful planning.

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Take things one step at a time.

It's great that you two realize and accept that you still love each other and want to be together but don't expect everything to fall into place right after. If so then what troubled you before could just come back to haunt you! Start things slow. Instead of you or him moving in right away, how about starting out with a date first and see where things go from there?

Fix old problems.

What was the main cause of your breakup? If that hasn't been resolved yet then it might not be the right time to get back together. You need to address your problems honestly and positively. Find a solution for them so they won't trouble you anymore.

Make plans.

Getting back together can't be accomplished in one step. It's a process and each stage in the process must be carefully planned. Yes, you may be dealing with your emotions here and feelings may not have structure and unable to understand logic but it won't hurt to carefully map out your actions either.

What would getting back together entail? Where would it start? What if either of you realizes that you don't want to get back together? How do you want problems in your relationship to be addressed?

Learn how to admit problems in your relationship exist.

Many people break up simply because they can't accept that their relationship isn't perfect. If this has been one of your problems then it's something that you need to resolve if you're determined to get back together with your ex.

You and your partner should admit to each other that there's always a possibility your relationship wouldn't be eternally smooth sailing. There are times when you two will stumble in the process of loving and caring for each other. It's important for you two to acknowledge immediately when these problems come up rather than sweeping them under the rug and letting them fester until they've become a wound you can't heal.

The past should remain in the past.

Getting back together means that the two of you are also willing to forgive and forget past transgressions with the understanding, of course, that neither of you will commit the same mistakes again.

If you are serious about getting back together with your ex, you should be willing to give him a clean slate starting from day one. If you don't then you might be tempted to bring up his old sins every time he makes a mistake. You can't expect your partner to pay for his sins for the rest of his life. Never think you have the right to throw his old mistakes on his face any time you want and then feel hurt and betrayed if he gets angry about it.

Decide when, where, and how it's best to talk about sensitive topics.

The past should remain in the past, yes, but there are times when you feel like clarifying certain issues or gaining closure, if you will. As these are highly sensitive topics, you two should agree early on what's the best approach for these subjects and where and when they should be taken up.

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