Even though you have recently suffered through a recent break up, you know deep in your heart that you were meant to be together. If you want things to work out you are going to have to learn how to get back together.

You can learn how to get her back and while not all that difficult - it will take thinking things though and planning your next steps.

Probably the very first thing you will need to do if you really want to get her back is to end any and all types of communication you are now carrying on with her. You may at first think that this is the last thing you want to do. But you must do this in order for her to realise how much you really mean to her. She can't miss you if you are always there, right?

Next, it's time to take care of you. You hae been pouring all your efforts into saving the relationship that there has probably been precious little time left for you. You're probably a wreck both physically and emotionally. I know it is not fair but being a wreck is not being an appealing and attractive man.

Show some independence. Let your old girlfriend know that she is not the only girl out there. A little flirting can help your cause when word gets back to her. Act cool and confident at all times. It will not only make you look and feel better, it will increase your attactiveness in the eyes of your ex.

As you can see, these opening moves are all designed to place you in a more desirable position before you even begin to put back the pieces to your old relationship. It is vitally important that you cease all door mat activity. You want your ex girlfriend to see you in the best light. You want her to remember why she found you so attractive in the first place.

You can't just wing it. If you really want to get her back you will need to follow a well thought out game plan. You will need to put the very forces of human nature on your side. Operating with these powerful forces supporting you you will be able to move things forward towards getting back together. You'll be able to get things going even if you are the only one trying to rekindle the relationship at first.