If you have suffered a recent break up, you probably are searching for the answer to, "How to get my boyfriend back." After all, this is a common feeling for those that have experienced an unwanted break up.

You may feel depressed and all you want to do is call your boyfriend and talk things out. But if the feelings and emotions are still raw, is this really going to help things - or just make matters worse?

If you try to make contact too soon, you will probably just make your ex boyfriend feel pressured and drive him further away. While it may be hard to do you need to shake yourself out of that pity party and resolve to take the actions necessary to rekindle your relationship!

Now that you've made up your mind to get serious about restoring your relationship, you can take some concrete steps to get things going.

The first step you must take to begin to turn things around is to accept the break up. Think about that for a minute. If you tell your ex that you are okay with the break up - it changes everything. He will no longer feel pressured and see you as needy or clingy. He will come to view you as strong and independent. It will cause him to reflect on the things that he found so attractive about you in the first place.

Next you want to break off all contact for a period of time. It is important that you use this "downtime" as a period of self growth. Go out with friends. Try new things. Have fun. The last thing you need to do is mop around the house and feel down.

This time with no contact will give your guy a chance to miss you. His feelings for you will start to build. He may even try to contact you, but until this time apart has had a chance to do it's magic, stay away!

The next step is to plan exactly how and when you will begin to get back together. Think out what you need to say when you talk again. You don't want to just go running willy-nilly back into his arms again. If you get back together with a few things understood, your time apart could have had a wonderful, unplanned benefit.

Take some time and plan things out to give you and your ex boyfriend the best chance at getting back together.

If you follow the three steps above, it will help you in the battle to restore the passion of your relationship. But does it completely answer the " How to get my boyfriend back" question?

I wish it were that easy. Most relationships can be saved. In perhaps 90% of all relationships, the cause of the break up are not serious enough to warrant throwing away all the good times.

The sad thing is even though the vast majority of relationships can be saved - they aren't. The anger and emotions surrounding the break up work against getting back together. The actions we take tend to be exactly wrong. It's not really our fault - it's just human nature.

The good news is we can use this powerful force - human nature - for us and not against us. We can act in ways that give us every chance to restore and rekindle the romance and passion we once had.

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