So you have just broken up with your girlfriend and you are wishing that it did not happen. You have been searching all over the net on advice on how to get your ex girlfriend back but you not believe that it will work or you want proof that it works. The thing with breakup, is that it is never easy on us emotionally. The one thing that is stopping us from getting back with our girlfriend is our pushiness. For example you are trying to call her and tell her all the sweet things and promising that you will change. As good as it sounds, in reality, all these does not work. All you are doing is only pushing your girlfriend further away from you. However, if you are already in this stage or if you have just broken up, there is still a huge possibility of getting back with your girlfriend. Let me show an easy plan that has worked for me.

1) First of all, you MUST stop contacting her. Meaning you have to stop your urge to want to call her or visit her or bump into her "accidentally", because all you are doing is pushing her away from you and making her dislike you more. When avoiding contact with her, do not tell her you are going to stop contacting her. This is a very important point. Because if you do that, she will already expect that you will not contact her and she may interpret as a threat.

2) Okay, if we are going to stop contact, so how to get your ex girlfriend back? We are going to work on a very important aspect in this whole equation, and that is attraction. Think of why she wanted to be with you in the first place. Chances are she was probably attracted to you in a certain way. So what we are going to work on is that attraction of yours. Try and remember what is it that attracted her to you in the first place.

3) Next, go to the gym. The gym is good because of several factors. You will look more attractive and when you exercise, you release very good chemicals from your body which will make you look younger and more attractive.

4) Go on many dates as possible. This will improve your self-esteem and if your ex girlfriend knows about it, the better, because this will show her you are not a needy person and can easily get another girl.

5) Do all these for at least a month and finally contact her. Ask her for a dinner and she should say yes. At the dinner, be sharp and smart and not act needy. Don't talk about the past, and just be friends with her. Slowly she will find back what she found you attractive in the first place and get back together with you.

So that is how to get your ex girlfriend back. Getting your girlfriend back is not rocket science, you just need to control your emotions to make yourself stop seeming needy. Remember, it is the neediness that is repelling your ex girlfriend away from you.

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