How To Have A Successful Booty Call Relationship

A booty call relationship by nature doesn't generally put the two terms booty call and relationship together, but in fact a good booty call is a relationship but on different terms then your typical boyfriend/girlfriend types.

A successful booty call relationship is had between two people who enjoy the company of each other for intimate encounters without all the hassles of the responsibility that comes with being a couple. A booty call is the term used when two people enjoy each other just for intimacy, and leave out the dating, meeting friends, and feeling responsible to each other to spend any time together except to have a good night. In other words, it's sex on-call.

Sometimes men and women just don't have time to nurture and give attention to a more companionship type relationship, or they just don't feel like it, but they still enjoy having someone they can get a hold of on a somewhat infrequent basis to do the deed and then go back to their separate lives.

www.Craigslist.org is your best friend, casual dating websites, consider one of your good friends. You can create a personal post and put out there upfront that you are only looking to spend some adult time, but that you are not interested at this time for anything more serious. Keep you intentions casual, but upfront. I would never encourage dating someone already in a relationship or marriage. If this is also important to you, make sure you make this clear.

For women, the e-mails will come pouring in. What guy, uninterested in getting serious at this time in his life, wouldn't be interested in starting the type of relationship that gives him a regular person to go to when he is horny, without the worry that she is looking for anything more.

For men, don't get discouraged if the response is not phenomenal, the women have the advantage but there is possibility to find the right women who will respond and take you up on your offer.

Exchange an e-mail or two, ALWAYS WITH PICTURES. Attraction is everything in a successful booty call relationship. Don't take too much time getting to know each other. You want to feel comfortable with the person, feel safe. Then make a plan, not a date, to meet for coffee. dinner is dating, coffee is a ice breaker. If there is mutual attraction, make a plan to meet up in a more intimate environment.

Your booty call relationship should go by the rules you both agree on.

• Some may choose to sleep with others while also sleeping together. But, remember safe sex. If one or the other in the relationship is sleeping with others, then why the need for the booty call. A better choice is to set the rule that you only sleep with each other and require complete honesty with this.

• Set the rule that if either of you find a more conventional date relationship with someone else you want to pursue, that a hold goes on the booty call and that it can restart if the conventional dating relationship falls through. This is not a second choice thing. You two agreed this was just about sex. If the idea of the other taking a time out for dating others sparks any jealousy, a booty call relationship may not be fore you.

• Safe Sex is important. Crucial. If you want to require getting tested together, make this clear upfront. If the other person isn't cool with it, move to the next candidate.

• Do not make dates, make times to meet. Your not dating, keep the booty call in the bedroom.

• Don't meet up to often. Meeting up for a booty call more then once or twice a week is likely going to cause one or both people to come to expect or depend on the meet-up. It's not going to be fun or spontaneous anymore its gonna become a chore. Another item on the to-do list. Ugh. Keep it light, keep it to no more then twice a week. Once a week is better.
  

These rules may work for you or make your own, but be clear and upfront with how you two want your booty call relationship to go. Both parties should be able to make a phone call when they want to hook up and make a time to meet at least 80% of the time. People have things to do, so sometimes its not going to be a convenient time. But neither the guy nor the girl should be in charge 100% of when meeting up occurs.. Unless of course this is how you want it. If it aint working out that way, discuss or move on.

Sure it happens.. You sleep with someone, an attraction grows to want to get to know them. Unfortunetly, when you start out with a relationship based only on having fun in the bedroom, its hard to build on there. Not impossible, but probably not very good odds for success. Namely, because two people went into this with and the chances that both people want more, in the same regard.

So what happens when the other just isn't feeling it, someones gonna end up hurt. Which means, honesty is gonna be a huge way to keep the drama to a minimum. If you start feeling the other person is getting in to deep, or you yourself are feeling in too deep. Talk about it, or get over it. Take time apart. Call in a break for a few weeks. Go on a date with someone else. Messing around with feelings in a booty call relationship is drama waiting to happen, and that was the point of this adventure.. To leave out the drama.