How To Keep Your Man Happy

Continue to do what you did when you started the relationship.... Too, many times people become content in their relationship and fail to realize, all it takes is to continue what you did from the start and add on to it. Operative words CONTINUE TO DO WHAT YOU DID FROM THE START. New is good, but do not mess up something that is already good. No, I am not saying do not do new things I am saying continue to do old and add a little new. There is always room for inprovement. Trying new things should be fun at the same time you have to realize your partner and you are not going to always agree on things to try. What my partner and I do is he try something I like and I try something he like. We take turns doing things one another like. Doing this you learn so much about your partner. You and your partner has to figure out what works for you all.

What a Man Wants other than Sex. Men want a woman in the streets and a dare devil at home. He wants a woman that can do it all from take care home, business, and him. Why is home different from him. Well, just as children need their special attention men and women needs special attention from their partner. Because you are washing, cooking, cleaning, or a professional woman does not mean you are taking care of your man. He needs the same attention you want him to give you. Do what you did for him when you first started to date. Give him a sweet note in the morning or call him and tell him you love. Sweet nothings are the best and cheap.W

WOMEN PLEASE keep yourselves up, because you have been with this man for an extended period of time does not mean he want to see you in your sweat everyday. Sometime is fine. Go to bed in a nice lingerie or if you are a stay at home partner have your hair combed and some clothes on. Of course your beauty attracted him in the first place. Come on what man talks to a women he feels is Ugly Betty. KEEP YOURSELF UP.

A man wants someone that can do things he like to do like play ball or fishing or something. Now, you do not have to go with him and the guys, but sometime whether you feel so or not that could a romantic date. Come on gals fishing is a romantic date. Rather you realize it or not before you know it you will get more attention than those fish. Remember KEEP YOURSELF UP! Be creative take a bottle of nice wine and make sure you have a blanket! You have to use your imagination. Even if he does just want to fish. Let em fish. He may get an enjoyment out of you being there with him. Do try to learn his activity, men love to feel superior!

For more information on what a man wants from you read John Hagee's "What Every Man Wants in A Woman". I tell you that book is great.

A Womans Needs. Myself I am a simple gal. All it takes for me is my partner giving me his time and undivided attention. Sometimes I like to receive sweat nothings and sometimes I need the roses etc... Most importantly I love to talk to my mate about my day whether good or bad. I like when he just listens, Other times, I like when he give me his feed back. I really like the fact that he treats me like I am his Queen. Never direspects me or let anyone else. He takes care of me. Men women do like gifts and to be pampered, she too like for a man that will go shopping and not complain on the long stay. Whether you realize it or not, she does not always want you to go, but sometimes women rather do things with their mate than friends. Just do what you did you get her in the first place. Come on think about do you think you would be with the woman you are with if she was not pleased with you and how you treated her. Women love always to have your attention and time, including professional woman.

MEN AND WOMEN sometimes it is good to walk away from things. When God close one door he surely opens another I am a living witness to that. You can not always get the last word. Sometime that last word can cut the next person deep without a knife. Walk away. You are NOT your mate Mother or Father you are mates and as mates your sole responsibilites are to keep the next one happy. That does not mean be stupid!!! Again, THAT DOES NOT MEAN BE STUPID. If your mate is a "player" let em play with themselves. It is too much going around in this world you deserve better and your mate do not respect you anyway. Every deserves to be with respected with the utmost respect! At the same time we have to learn to forget and forgive, but if you are not going to forget and forgive let em go. You are going to end up playing the blame game.

Even if somethings happens that you disagree with, you still stand by your mate and talk about and if it fails do not blame them. We all have our own minds so do not ever intimidate you partner by believing you are always right you may as well be by your damn self that is not love. Men and women are totally different!!!

CHERISH YOUR MATE. What you do not do, someone else will. Creativity is a must. If it sex then give him, if it is a movie night, give it. What ever the case is give and be creative. Example: Sex does get boring after doing the same thing over and over. Buy toys that is ok only between the two of you. What goes on in your bedroom is sacred. What you do is not for your friends. A lot a time that is why there are so many problems, cause rather you realize it or not your mate is suppose to be your best friend then come your other best friend. Another example for spending time together play your favorite game and the winner gets massage and the lose gives it and washes dishes. You have to keep your end of the bargain. MEN MOST OF THE TIME YOUR WOMAN WILL STILL HELP YOU DO THE DISHES. WOMEN DO NOT COUNT ON IT!!!

COMMUNICATION is the key. With out it there is nothing. Learn how to communicate. Screaming at one another is not communicatoin. Talking and not listening is not communication. You have to listen and realize you are not always right. It is not who is right or who is wrong, it is real important to know how your mate feels. Do not have a conversation angry, do not let the conversation never come. I do not know why it is so hard for mates to properly communicate. Good communications carries you far. And if you need help get a therapist. It does not mean you are crazy. Ministers give counseling all the time. It will help, but you need to learn how to communicate.

Well, I touch basis on what I felt like was the most important. I will definitely continue on with this from time to time and if you have questions or comments give em. I am very open minded. Thank you for reading my article and hope you will read more. Before I forget if you need a good read read John and Diane Hagee's book What every man wants and what every woman wants and awesome book. And a easy read. Thank you for your time.