There are times when you feel that making your ex jealous is the right thing to do. Although it is not the best method to keep things smooth between you and your ex, it may be something that you still want to consider.

A great way to begin to make your ex jealous is to first cease contact with them. Keep yourself from sending texts, calling, or simply visiting. Ensure that there is no communication whatsoever between you and your ex.

Give it time, and then look into inviting your ex to doing something together. Nothing big, just a friendly get-together. Good reasoning to convince your ex to join you is to simply tell them that you just want to catch up on things.

Within the get-together, calmly allow your ex to know that you appreciate the friendship that you have. Don’t allow your ex to thing that you are trying to make them miss you. But within the entire get-together, have fun and see to it that your ex has a great time as well. Throughout the entire thing don’t bring up anything that may have happened between you and your ex. Showing that you enjoy your friendship will later be the catalyst in making your ex jealous.

When the get-together is over, make yourself seem as if you are without promise of any relationship. If your ex chooses to ask you to date once more, be polite about it, but show resistance. This could be accomplished by saying “possibly”, or “maybe”.

The next step is to have yourself in some way be noticed by your ex with someone else. You could be on a date with that person, or simply having a get-together with that person. If you notice that your ex is watching you at any time, show interest in that person in front of your ex. By showing interest in someone else in front of your ex, you can better create jealousy from them.

Another way to make your ex jealous is to spend time with people that he or she is acquaintances with. Try to avoid people that happen to be their best friend, or an immediate family member. You could also look to working to accomplish something. You could go work out or exercise, find success in something. Showing that you are successful in an area that your ex knows you are good at is sure to spike jealousy from them, mainly because they aren’t there to share it with you.

A thing to avoid at this time is a relationship with another person, and be sure that you don’t pretend that you are either. Be sure to talk to people and enjoy yourself. The point being that it will surely bother your ex that you’re free, and your ex isn’t with you. Show your ex that you are happy with life with others. Whatever you do, be sure not to come off as “easy”, only show to be confident in talking with others. But too much with those of the opposite sex, will allow your ex to figure out your intentions.

Be sure that you do all of this over time, and not all at once, but be sure to enjoy yourself!

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References:

How To Make An Ex Jealous

How To Deal With An Ex

How To Talk To An Ex

Getting Over Your Ex