To make a relationship strong, there must be a committment from the two of you to build your relationship to make it indelible. It takes two to make a relationship strong and resilient. Relationship means that you are relating to another person. You are not relating to yourself but to another person. Although the relationship may be treated as an entity, the two of you have to work to make it a strong bond that it is meant to be.

Let's face it women, the feminine gender is all about relationships more so than men. Men meets the "one" and hey, they think that as long as they pay the bills and keep the mortgage or rent paid that the relationship is doing fine. Women check up once in a while and may ask do their mate still loves them and the answer more often than not is the information contained in the first paragraph. They think that they love you because they pay the bills and the mortgage. If the woman is looking for more than the technicalities of a marriage then the relationship may be in trouble.

The woman submits to the decision of the man most of the time in the relationship. They trust their men to make the best decision because of their pragmatism and practicality in getting right to the core of the problem or the issue. But if the woman is lacking something in the relationship, then the marriage may be in trouble. If she is left alone most of the time when she married for companionship, then that can be a problem. If she wants to work outside of the home but the husbands wants to keep her inside the  home, then that can be a problem. If she wants two kids but he does not want kids, then that can be a problems. There can be problems in marriages or relationships that makes it less stronger if communication is not present.

That is why, going forward, the two people in the relationship must "relate" to each other so that these issues can be resolved amicably hopefully before the legality of marriage. The better the communication between the two in the relationship, the stronger the relationship. The relationship weakens when the communication bond is broken with disagreements, disappointments or disdainments. Issues should be discussed and not covered up or avoided as these same issues will surely come up again at another time. Conflicts should be confronted and resolved immediately to strengthen the relationship.

You make your relationship stronger by keeping the communication channels open and to let each other know about what is pleasing or displeasing in the relationship. Even if you are in a relationship with the strong silent type, you must get him to talk about what he expects out of the relationship to make it stronger. Do not do all of the talking or you are trying to fix the relationship yourself the relationship needs the input from the two of you. Remember always that  it takes two to make a relationship strong.