Well, to start of - both sides need to make compromises without feeling that they are the only ones adjusting or making concessions.

Actually, this is not a specific enough question to answer it directly. But, I'd try to outline a few things that would go a long way in minimizing chances of a break-up.

A man should:

1. Listen to his wife patiently, hearing out her problems or issues that she feels has brought the relationship to its present state. This is of course important coz unless you understand the basic issues that plague a relationship, its unlikely you can do anything much to improve the relationship. So, understand the problem issues first. The man would do well to listen patiently (even though he might not agree to all the things being said) coz speaking out of turn could possibly degenerate into a slanging match.

2. Now that you (the man) know what the issue is, if you agree with her and acknowledge the problems, communicate to her what you intend doing about it. How you plan to assauge her concerns. If you don't agree with her, convince her by putting forward hard facts. Don't lie. Lying is possibly the worst thing you can do, while in a relationship. Nothing breaks marriages more than lies.

3. Trust her unless you have hard facts that make you doubt her. Don't let accusations fly without evidence to back up your claims. You might regret it pretty badly and feel like a fool when your accusations come up empty. Worse that that - it would pretty much destroy the marriage.

4. Spend time with her and make her feel wanted. Remember those dates (anniversaries, birthdays, etc) if you can. Make her feel you care about the relationship. Do things apart from saying things like "I love you;" do say affectionate words as often as you can. It might seem pretty routine, but it does make an impact.

5. Never let your temper overake you. Never make a decision in anger. Hasty decisions are never the right ones. If you do get angry, give yourself some time to cool off and think things over. Make your decisions at your own time. Don't rush things up. Make considered decisions.

A woman should:

1. Let a man have his space, without being neglectful of her. Let him have his TV sports time. Let him have his buddy time. But remind him and make sure he knows you want time with him too. Sensitize him to your requirements so he knows what you look for in him as a husband.

2. Trust him as a rule - unless you have clinching evidence of infidelity. Nothing hurts a man (or a woman) more than knowing that his woman doesn't trust him - if indeed he is innocent. So, don't rush into making accusations. Never a wise thing to do.

3. Never accuse him of things, again if you don't have hard evidence. Men don't like being shouted at, especially if they think you are in the wrong. Try communicating your concerns (even though are u angry as hell). Try to make him feel guilty by acknowledging his mistakes. Anger would make him more combative and hardnosed. It for sure won't resolve any problems.

4. Never try to own your man. Don't be possessive of him. Again, give him his space and time.

5. Don't demand lavish gifts or go on a shopping spree with his money. He won't appreciate that for sure. He's worked hard to earn that money and you better make sure he also thinks that something is worthwhile to buy. Convince him about your reasoning to buy - show him the logic or at least show him how happy you'd be if he bought it for you. Don't pressurize him into buying something. He'd buy it anyways if he loves you enough and knows what you want. Just let him know you like something in particular and he'd probably buy that on his own.

Well, I am no expert but I hope this helped a wee bit at least.