When you notice the incipient stirrings of breakups and you know that the day he or she'll say "it's over" is imminent, it's imperative that you take action now and save your relationship from an unwanted end.

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Find out what's the problem.

This is the best and unfortunately also the hardest way to stop a breakup. If you know what the problem is then all you have to do is find a way to fix it. You can ask him directly or indirectly what the problem is. The best approach depends on your partner's personality and the kind of relationship you share. If you don't think this would work then try observing things more keenly. Pay attention even to the smallest things your partner is doing. Learn how to read between the lines. Rather than just hearing the words that your partner is saying, listen to the emotions behind it as well. Be more sensitive!

Spend more time with your partner.

Perhaps your partner is suffering from neglect and that's why he wants to break up with you. Perhaps you don't understand what your partner is going through and the absence of connection makes him want to end things between you two. If you spend more time with your partner, it's easier to find out what's troubling him and making him want to break up with you.

If emotional neglect is the problem then you should learn how to manage your time properly and show your partner that he is one of your most important priorities in life. Time is a precious commodity and it's a pity that time is also the one many people can't manage effectively.

Open communication lines between you and your partner.

When was the last time you really talked with your partner? When was the last time you talked about your relationship, where it's going and what your goals are for your relationship to become stronger and better?

Life, or more specifically, making a living, has a way of making you forget everything else. Sometimes, you end up being too busy that you no longer have the time to share your feelings with each other. It's not enough that you show your partner you care through your actions. If you think him every minute of the day, that's good - but have you told him that? Don't assume that your partner can read your mind just because you've been together for a long time already. Sometimes, words are just as or more important than actions.

Ask for outside help.

Sometimes, your partner may be unwilling to confide in you for whatever reason. If this is the case, don't jump into the worst conclusions right away. Consider asking for outside help. Seek the persons closest to your partner and ask for their opinion. There are times that a person finds it easier to confide in a stranger or someone who's not involved because there's less chance of hurting and being hurt.

You might see this as an act that lowers your pride but why think that if it's what's going to prevent you and your partner from breaking up?

Of course, all these tips won't do you any good if your partner no longer loves you. In such cases, the only thing you can do is move on and believe that there's someone better for you out there.

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