Everyone wants to be desired. Compliments, innuendos, and actions from a lover are relationship enhancers. Don't be afraid or bashful, go ahead and let him know you want him.

Unexpected touches, hugs, and playful actions can stimulate the body's senses and enhance sexual thoughts. Subtle but direct actions can keep the mind and body conjuring up thoughts and feelings throughout the day. Playful words, facial expressions, and fingertip-touching can send burning sensations through the body's erotic zones.

Females are powerful creatures. Seemingly effortlessly, women can cause a man's thoughts to tailspin out of control, at a moment's notice. Some women seem to be born with tantalizing sexuality and naturally entice men's sexual thoughts. Other women seem to struggle in attention-getting efforts, and often prefer to give up.

Ladies, never give up! Instead of doing without, change the game plan, get off the fence, and take the lead. Healthy sexual relationships don't just happen; they must be nurtured. Hot and steamy activities can cool down to a now-and-then kind of thing, and eventually dwindle and become more like a barren wasteland.

Sexual stimulation and playfulness is not only fun, it feels good, and is exhilarating. The heart beats a bit faster, the body's feels sexual, and a satisfying, healthy sex life is enjoyed. Many times, relationships suffer and become boring when people abandon or ignore sexual feelings and desires.

Never shun or turn down a hug, kiss, or touch offered from you lover. Commitments are broken for the smallest of reasons. Rejection can be the first step to cause relationships to break down. Other negative thoughts will quickly mushroom, and soon their will be no physical contact between the couple.

Instead, keep the love light burning. Simple things and activities will keep loving interest and steamy thoughts alive and well.

Look for Opportunities

Be on the lookout for reasons and ways to touch him 'accidentally.' Don't ask him to hand you the car keys, slide your hand in his pocket and watch his reaction. Don't ask him to pass you a napkin, reach across and let your breasts rub against his arm. Don't just walk by or ask him to move to let you through, slowly ease through and let your rear slide over his gear. Don't keep your hands to yourself when you're seated beside him. Rest your hand on his upper thigh.

Blindside Attack

Quietly approach him from behind, wrap your arms around him and kiss his neck. He'll love the feel of your breasts against his back, and you get to enjoy the scent of his skin. This works great anytime, but if you decide to do this as he comes out of the shower, be prepared for instantaneous and explosive results!

Little Changes

If you want to capture his immediate interest, the change must be 'guy-visible.' Take a detour from your everyday look. If you normally wear jeans, strut your stuff in a mini-skirt. Love those 4-inch Stilettos but aren't going anywhere? Who cares, put them on with your mini-skirt, show your femininity, and flirt with him. He will notice! Put some bounce in your life, wear a low-cut t-shirt and go bra-less. It's the little things that make big differences.

Flattery will Get you Everything

Is there something about this hunk that drives you crazy? Do you love his eyes, muscled arms, tight buns, or the look of his package in a pair of jeans? Do you sneak glances of his thighs or groin area while he's seated? Go ahead, it's sensual and flattering! If he doesn't seem to notice your wandering eyes, help him out, tell him how much he turns you on.

Be a Chatter-Box

Once you have his attention, talk to him in another language. That's right, the language of sex. Use explicit terms to describe fantasies and body parts. Show him how you love to self-pleasure your body, talk to him, say his name softly during intercourse. Saying his name will reinforce his attention on you. It's not a bad thing to be a 'lady' in the living room, and a 'whore' in the bedroom.

He'll eye you in a whole new light, and the flames of passion will pale in comparison to the heated inferno you created.