Let's talk about the 3 ways to win your wife back. These are 3 methods based on simple human psychology and WILL work if you just apply them. They're not anything to do with playing "mind games" or any dirty tactics. Just plain common sense and some wisdom from somebody who's been there.

Method 1
Leave your ex wife alone! Don't hound her day and night and absolutely, under no circumstances should you ever resort to begging or whining. She needs some space now more than ever. Smothering her with constant attention isn't going to help your cause. Cool your jets for a bit.

Method 2
Write her a letter. It will be a LOT easier to gather your thoughts methodically in an email than it will be to call her up on the phone and end up blurting out something you'll later regret. With a well-written email, you can put down exactly how you feel and she can read it without the pressure of having to face you too soon.

Method 3
Go get yourself a tune up. Hit the gym, get a haircut. Take a good long look at yourself in the mirror and think about how you could improve. One of the harshest things about a relationship ending is the cold hard light it casts on your ego. Take advantage of this spotlight and make a change.

Follow these 3 ways to win your wife back and reap the rewards.

The first few days after a breakup are the most fragile of all. All you can think about is "I want to win my girlfriend back!" You're all over the place emotionally and the temptation to call her can be tempting. Here's why you shouldn't.

Too much contact between you in this delicate early stage is only going to heighten tension and potentially ruin your chances of getting back together.

Give her some time and some space. Don't worry, she's thinking about you just as much, if not more, than you're thinking about her. It's important for both of you to have this time alone to sort out your feelings of where things went wrong.

I realize that in some situations, having no contact just isn't feasible. Maybe you both work together or maybe one of you has kids. If this is the case you can still minimize rather than eliminate contact altogether.

"But how can I win my girlfriend back if I never talk to her?"

After a reasonable amount of time has passed (give it at least a week), write her a letter. I'm not talking about an email - a real honest-to-god letter. Dig out a pen and some paper and get some thoughts down. This will allow you to carefully construct how you feel and what you want to say much more effectively than a phonecall or meeting in person.

The next time you find yourself lying wide awake in bed at 3am in the morning thinking "How can I win my girlfriend back?", get up and get writing. You'll be glad you did and she just might be too.

Here is one bit of advice that will make the biggest difference in your quest to win your ex back.

Leave. Her. Alone.

"How am I supposed to win her back if I leave her alone?!?"

A common error in trying to rebuild relationships is smothering the other person with constant attention. This is always a mistake. You read that right. ALWAYS. We as human beings, need to time alone to think. Time to sort out our thoughts. We can't do this with another person constantly demanding our attention.

Time and space. Give her both and then think about winning her back.