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How To Write an Erotic Love Letter

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By izettl

 The great thing about writing dirty is that some people feel uncomfortable or silly talking dirty. Many of us on hub pages express ourselves through writing and it can be put to good use by writing an erotic love letter, making your partner feel extremely sexy and wanted. Follow these tips and see where it gets you- you won't be disappointed.



Step 1: Flatter With Descriptive Words

Get to know your subject. Hopefully you already know them fairly well, but this requires you to study them carefully and notice small details about this person. The more specific the details the better because it shows romantic admiration, and it's just plain flattering for the person receiving your erotic love letter.

Some points to study are their smell, their movements, their favorites, how they sip their coffee, and their quirks that most people wouldn't usually notice (i.e. the way you wrinkle your nose like an unruly school girl who cheated her way to my heart, body, and soul).

Great adjectives to use are: smoldering, deep, taunting, wicked, fervent, spicy, curious, adventurous, playful, enticing, enchanting, silken, lush, impassioned, sultry, torrid, dirty, white-hot, feverish, impressive, insatiable, unstoppable, addictive. Make sure to include some adjectives unique to this person about their actions or appearance.


Step 2: Animalistic Action Words

Think like the animal that you are and how this person makes you react to them. An erotic love letter must have action and animalistic action is sexy. It's not degrading to use verbs related to animals if used tastefully in a raw and passionate way. Words like taste, arouse, tempt, linger, savor, tremble, hunger, lick, attack, attract, sense, pounce, prey, excite, hunt, and pursue.


3. What do You Want to Do?

This is where you combine your descriptive and action words and explain what you would do with (or to) this person the next time you get a moment alone with him or her. Everything you mention should be non-threatening and flattering, especially pleasurable, for your lover (i.e. I thought of your silken skin pressing hungrily into my eager flesh, which only served to remind me that I need everything about you before my self-control erupts. You delight me, you tempt me, but most of all I enjoy every bit of it and I want to show you just how much I crave you).

Do's and Don'ts

Do write this letter with an accurate representation of what level of intimacy and committment your relationship is at. Don't speak the word love for the first time in this letter. It's meant to be playful and hot, not deep and involved. Likewise, if you love the person and they love you, do mention this or something similar about how strong you feel for them- use feeling words along with sexy words.

Do consider who the recipient is. Write this letter to a lover, very special someone, spouse, girlfriend or boyfriend- not crushes, someone you barely know or anonymous stalking.

Don't speak only of physical needs- people are attracted on a mental level too. Speaking of physical needs, try to concentrate on phrases and words that describe meeting and satisfying your partner's needs.

Don't be a turn off. Don't be rude! Don't be disgusting.

For more erotic inspiration: http://www.secretloveletters.com/

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SUNNY22  says:
9 months ago

WHICH TYPE OF EROTIC LOVE LETTER YOU WANT.

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muzamil  says:
9 months ago

Hi,i m student,my age 19years, i like love and friendship with girls,my contect mobile no 0333-7623976,0313-7623976.

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Tom Cornett  says:
9 months ago

Unique subject....good ideas.....thanks! :)

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Don Simkovich  says:
9 months ago

Hi, good article. I also wrote an article on AC on writing love letters. It's quite an art form.

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AEvans  says:
9 months ago

I appreciate this article , be prepared you may experience a back lash or two , or three. LOLO... I did when I wrote "Naughty in the Bedroom" but this is a worthy piece and just like Don stated it is an art form. :)

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Pest  says:
9 months ago

Backlash ..# one I love it! Now thqat I have established my place in line...ahead of Cris!!! While i was in the Army...Letters and even phone calls were awesome. 

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Don Simkovich  says:
9 months ago

Erotic writing is also about the senses: what you feel, the details of what you see . . . what you hear . . . how clothing feels, the brush of lips against each other . . . the scent of hair . . . whether in a story or love letter. My analogy is like a garden hose with the water turned fully on but a nozzle keeping the pressure to an intense spray . . . !

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izettl  says:
9 months ago

THanks for the comment AEvans!

Pest~ Phone calls are good to, but I'm a giggler so I could never keep a straight face with a dirty call, but my husband is out of town often so sending him on his way with a letter hidden in his coat pocket usually does it.

Don Simkovich~ Yes I totally agree about the senses. I don't think I conveyed enough of that in this hub. It's a lot about the little things like you mention- "how clothing feels", "scent of hair", etc.

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izettl  says:
9 months ago

ok whatever

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tinyteddy  says:
8 months ago

izetti nice tips

but one has to write something sensual

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