How Women Destroyed the Family and US Economy
71Economic and Social Issues come down to materialism
You may hate me for saying this but like, the child in the story of The Emperor's New Clothes; somebody's got to stand up and state the insanity for what it is; so I'll be the bad guy and say;
" The Emperor is Not Wearing Any Clothes!"
by saying that the greed of self centered women has destroyed the United States economy and social fabric. There, I've said it and will now list the reasons.
If you keep an open mind you may come to agree with me at least 50%.
The housing crisis, over weight children, many learning disabilities, infectious disease epidemics, social retards, and many other disorders that grow worse due to lack of ,hands on supervision and early detection that can be traced back to materialistic mothers who just want it all.
Reason #1 Unhealthy and overweight children
Mothers who work full-time are less aware of illnesses or bad eating habits that lead to illnesses since they only see their children for a couple of hours a day. Even then they are both rushing out to work or school or grabbing a quick fast food meal and getting ready for bed.
Reason #2 Materialism/greed over extended the economy
90% of the time it is the woman who wants bigger,better, more luxurious things. If hubby can't afford them on his own she will abandon her children, leaving them in childcare 10- 12 hours (6am - 6pm) a day. Daycare workers spend more time with her children than she does. Her excuse " I want to give my kids the best of everything!" In reality, children don't know if they live in a 1000 sq ft home or 4000 sq ft house. They could care less if they ride in the back of a Toyota or a Mercedes Benz.. Nor do they care if they are wearing designer diapers or generic brand. It's all for show, all for mom..
Reason #3 Poor Social Habits
Children and society suffer both short and long term effects of neglected children. Early signs are being desperate for adult attention, bullying and anger. I believe children come into this world knowing what real love feels like and know when they are not important enough for one to sacrifice a career for a few years to dedicate full attention to this new life.
Other social problems are social awkwardness’s like not knowing how to make or keep friends. Pragmatic difficulties such as standing too close, talking too loud and not reading others body language correctly. Many children thought to be autistic, adhd or to have Aspergers Syndrome simply havn't been properly socialized.
I am in no way saying the above disorders don't exist but the fact that the Center for Disease Control estimated that 1 in every 150 children are diagnosed with some form of Autism in 2007 compared to before 1990 1 in every 2000 to 5000 children were diagnosed.
As a teacher I observe that many of these kids and otherwise normal kids with social problems have simply not been properly socialized at an early enough age
If you think about it all of these things are generally taught by a mother repeatedly in the early years.
My 4th and last reason for alarm is that we are several generations into the trend of full time working moms which means that neglected children are not only raising children of their own but raising them in the same way on the premise that this is not only socially acceptable but practically expected.
Why stay home with children and live in a small home with one car when you can throw them in daycare and keep up with the Jones?
I want to add that this is not aimed at single moms (that's a whole other social problem) or women who have to work to pay the bills not buy luxuries.
You may wonder what my background experience is for the above mentioned information. Apart from being a teacher and observing these problems daily, I raised by a professional mom and experienced the neglect first hand still, chose to raise my own first child this way before seeing the repercussions and making the necessary changes in my own life.
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I was and still am a Stay at home Mom--even though my children are out on their own with their own familes I stillstay at home to be there should they ever need me. That is what mother is supposed to be. I had my children to raise for myself and not someone else to to those precious things and to keep them in line. I was known as a strict mother and I demamnded to know exactly where they were. I also expected them to do as they said that they word because when they get to the real world they are only known by the words they keep. We sacrificed lots of things like cars and bigger houses and such. Why id bigger better? Why do people need such big houses and they aren't even in them to enjoy them. I applaud your efforts and agree with them.
That's quite a sweeping judgement, but i do agree with many of your points. I hold men responsible for their own lack of values, and making bad choices in choosing mates who are not equipped to raise children, thereby we see this terrible cycle playing out in our society, as you have said here. A good thought provoking hub!
Exactly. There is some science in with the sociology here. Much of the Autistic Spectrum (ADHD etc) have now been traced to genetic tags (chromosome 4, 5, 10, 15, 17) which is why these conditions are genetically heritable (i.e. the root cause). Bad parenting does not cause ADHD.. it exasperates it. I think we are seeing such an increase in these DSM Axis 1 problems because of our Western feminist agenda which celebrates divorce, independence, materialism & hostile BPD (Borderline - DSM Axis II - Personality Disorders) creates an environment where genetically affected women are allowed to systolic-ally (without any personal ownership of their part in the problem) simply create a terrible environment for the families. Mine was one.. & I was a stay at home father. This situation evolved because of an unwillingness on my partner's part to sacrifice any of the agenda for myself or our 2 children. Now I am separated, my kids are both going down the crapper (in psychiatric terms). The wife continues to straddle 2 personas, absent & neglectful at home while fully "realizing her potential" in her work & social activities. I have done enough research with Psychiatrists & Psychologists for my kids in the past 3 years to come to this conclusion. Your article is correct, deep investigation agrees. The only change I would make is that it is NOT ALL women, the actual percentage (BiPolar, Autistic Spectrum, Axis II) is about 1 in 6. Those 1 in 6 hide behind the women's movement clouding the actual problem. The other 5/6 start defending behaviors which you have sited. The materialism issues are simply a problem with our society in general. Good article, dig deeper & you will find root causes.
Iam sorry you children have to suffer through this. As I said, I myself was blinded by femism's justification for out right neglect. I finally wised up, it was not all about me! I speak up about these issues now because I care about our country, our children and where we're headed. The guilt I felt was realand I believe all mothers feel this, I hope they will follow their hearts and not their wallets.
As for root causes; I will be writing about another one here soon; Birthcontrol Pills
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Randy Godwin says:
2 months ago
Mothers being away working instead of making sure their children are developing a sense of self confidence is the main reason we have the lack of independence lacking in today's youth. I don't know what the solution is but you are correct in your observations. Good article!