Relationships can be hard to deal with at times if you are totally different people you have to take the time and get to know someone because if you don't it could hurt you in the long run. People change and all of a sudden you could find yourself saying what will I do next.Well ,never be in that position,always have a plan even if it's going back home with mom that's not so bad?

First ,Taking the time to get to know some one usually takes a little more time because there is so much in the unknown that you have to make sure of like secrets.Starting a new relationship brings out more secrets that one doesn't want to explain anymore sometimes we just want things to be in the past and don't want to revil it in our next relationship.Watch out for the pass information it could hurt you.

Get the unknown out early in the relationship ,so there won't be any unexplained problems.Know what you are getting yourself into.Be sure to be positive and uplifting no matter what.?Be strong an get through this.Understanding is the greatest ,an some people won't even talk to you if you can't understand them,but by being understanding people are more likely to confide in you.So open up ,and learn new things.

Keep the relationship refreshing, it should feel like a fresh breath of air, if it doesn't feel this way any more ,it's time for some major improvements. The spice must be gone but there are plenty of great activities that you can do with your partner don't feel bad.

• Do different things together.
• Don't be afraid to try new things .
• Don't be afraid to take your partner's advice,some people are scared because this may lead to a bigger commitment.
• Stay active ,don't just keep doing the same boring things.
• Relieve stress together ,this means more than just sex,Dancing,Sports,different activities.
• Do things that you know your partner will enjoy.
• Always put some passion in the relationship.
• Notice your partner,The good and the bad.
• Take the time to include the little things(foot rub,back massage)Be romantic!
• Be honest,tell the truth even if it hurts.It will be off your chest and you will feel a whole lot better.

Being in a relationship has a lot of ups and downs but the good part is getting pass it together .Change is always good in a relationship.You have to keep your partner guessing even if you've been together for 40yrs.The best way to keep a relationship together is by trying different and new things with your partner and to keep them surprised,happy,and smile.

A relationship could change your whole life .Having a family ,Buying a nice new house, enjoying each-other everyday,Going through the bad times and the good .All of these things in a relationship, some one remembers ,whether it's good or bad but,nobody wants to be in a hurtful relationship ,so Try to make magical moments in the future be happy and use my tips.

Take the time to know your partner,and enjoy them without the complaining an the angry attitudes.This will go along way ,because nobody want's someone telling them what to do all of the time ,so that's why you have to get to know your partner so you'll know what they want.

I will be updating this hub when I find out more on how to keep my relationship going but if you enjoy this hub please take the time to give me thumbs up or even write a comment thanks Mia