How do I know if he really likes me.

Oh, the memories of that first feeling of love, the warm sensation on the face, the awareness you are being watched by all as you walked down the hallways of school, but don’t really care. In that moment in the universe it’s just you and him. The times he looked and smiled but not sure what it meant, and going crazy telling your friends about the experience. The sleepless nights of constant thinking about him. And then the nights thinking what to wear and not wanting to look like a “blah” just in case if he happens to see you in the school hallways. What to do, you say quietly to yourself.

It doesn’t matter how old you are, love does not change its ways. People and times change. In today’s time most would say, why worry so much about wondering if that person really likes you, “just go and ask”. Although we are in modern times, chivalry, etiquette and manners are the best approaches. You do not know the person and he might just be trying to be nice by smiling. He may also be shy. Its lovely you also smiled at him. So for that reason do not jump into quick conclusions.

At the same time this person could be a “player” and knows whom to target and finds you and knows you will fall for his seduction and flirtations.

Most important for all women of all ages, before beginning to go through the “love flirting games”. One must feel comfortable and feel good of oneself. To do this you must appreciate yourself never criticize yourself and practice loving yourself, appreciating who you are and you will see that this process will help you feel confident of yourself and not have chase anyone no matter how tempting it is. You will have him at you feet by the way you conduct your self with confidence. He will find you very unique. Once he is at your feet asking you for your phone number and a date then your next step will be preparing yourself and mind with what are good questions to ask to get to know someone really well.

Here are some of your questions answered to help you know if he really likes you:

Does he want to be with you?

Is he with you all the time, does he ask to come over or to go out?

has he asked you out or invited you over?

Has he asked you serious questions?

If someone is interested in you they would be talking to you, trying to know about you.

Does he ever look at you?

If so, how does he react when you turn around and catch him staring at you?

Once you get together then you will need to know how to get to know this person. You do not want to probe, but with carefully planned questions you can cover all ends and still not feel that the date was just to interrogate, but for both of you to have a wonderful experience and conversation and enjoy the date.