How to Know if a Guy Likes You
99How to Know When He Likes You
He asked for Your Cell Phone Number
Scientific reports have been produced about how to know when a guy is attracted to you. The scientific report reveals that a guys eyes dilate and his pupils gets smaller if he likes you. You have to be awfully close to the guy to see in his eyes so this test is not recommended. What is recommended is that you study his body language. If when he faces you one of his feet is turned in the direction of the door, that means that he does not like you. If his attitude is letting you know that he does not like you in how he acts and shows off his personality, that is a clear sign. A guy will not come out and tell you that he does not like you because it would not be the most gentle thing to do. Guys know when you like them, they have sensors that lets them know just as the girl has intuition. If he does not reciprocate his sensors with positive action to getting to know you, then he does not like you. When a guy likes you, he will do the usual. He will ask you for your cell phone number and then he will call you.
If you looked at the movies, He's Not that Into You, one of the actresses had a system where she tested how long it took for the guy to call her. If the guy does not call or try to contact you then he is not interested in you. Men are conquestors and conquerors and like to seek their girls out themselves. Most guys even in these modern times do not like to be approached or they may think that you are desperate. You will just have to sit back wait and wonder unless you want to make a fool out of yourself. Some guys may take advantage of your attraction to them and may get what they want and move on. Stay away from these guys who you can detect with the number of times their cell phones ring if you go on a date .
Quiet guys are the most difficult to tell if they like you are not. Shyness keeps them from being proactive and unless circumstances get the two of you together, you may never know if he likes you. The best thing to do is to use the social networking medias like Twitter or Facebook and do a search if you know his name. Introduce yourself and see if he follows you. You may have to be aggressive if the guy is shy or you may want to move on and meet someone who is not so quiet and shy.
Use the guy's body language, his attitude and behavior to give you a clue that he likes you. Try not to be the initiator because you may get your feelings hurt or you may be taken advantage of. Be true to yourself and find other interests instead on concentrating on a guy who may not be interested in you. Relationships happen and if it was meant to be the two of you will meet.
He was Proactive with the Attraction Factor
Guys will talk to each other and if you can let his friend know that you are interested, that may be one way of getting to meet the guy. Unlike the situation television shows, this feat may be a bit difficult. However, you can network with the friend and the friend can be the go to person to get the two of you together. You should not dwell on meeting the guy you are interested in. If the two of you have met and he has not asked for your cell phone number then more often then not, he may not be interested. In reality, sometimes a girl may like a guy who does not like her. The guy can sense her attraction to him and if he does not act upon the connection, then he is not interested.
How to Know When a Guy Likes a Girl
He Likes Your Character and Personality
You may have to cool your enthusiasm so that you can see the clear picture. If the attraction is just coming from you, then the relationship was not meant to be. A relationship involves two and if you are pursuing him, he will most likely head in the other direction. You may play hard to get, but if he is not interested then you will find yourself playing the game alone.
If you are wondering if the guy likes you then you are in fact worrying. No one likes a worrier and it would be better to move on to getting to know yourself better. People like each other for different reasons, if you are just attracted to his looks be careful. Character plays a more important part in a person's personality. Your personalities must be compatible and if he has not made an effort to connect with you then he may know that the relationship will not work.
Do not make meeitng this guy a priority because you may be just wasting your time. Guys who like a special girl, will make the first move. If a guy likes you, he will do everything he can to meet you. You should be yourself and enjoy the friends that you have. Anything or anyone worth having is worth waiting for. A special relationship is probably in your future but you should not focus on if a guy likes you, especially if he has not given a clue regarding the guy's interest.
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Jennifer says: Thank you for your comment and I offer you this advice concerning dating a co-worker based upon what you have told me.
Your policy is not to date male co-workers and that is a good reason to not reopen a situation that you should thank for having closed.
Your friend is the liason between the male co-worker and you. Your friend says he is interested in you. You initially kept your policy of not dating co- workers and then you changed your mind after a month.
You should not approach either your girlfriend or the male co-worker who is supposedly interested in you. Men are proactive when it comes to getting involved with someone they are interested in. The fact that he has not spoken to you in person means that you can not be sure that he is still interested after a month of no communication.
Using heresay or depending on another person to connect two people is not a good thing. Your situation has not included any one to one conversation with the male co-worker who supposedly wants to meet you. I write supposedly not because you may be unattractive to him but because you have never spoken to him in person.
You are employed and as an adult you should be speak for yourself and not depend on your girlfriend to speak up for you. You are not in high school and the teenager trend of saying that someone likes you should be ignored. Even in high school, young men will come to you if they are interested to fend off someone else getting your attention.
The workplace is not the appropriate place to meet and to date. You have to make a living and if something was to happen between the two of you, your job could be at risk. The "no dating co-workers" policy is tried and true not to mix the office ink with a relationship. Sure, you see couples meeting at work and dating on situation television shows but you are dealing a real life situation. I commend you for having the personal policy of not dating coworkers and you should adhere to this way of thinking about office relationships.
Based on what you told me, the conversation about the guy liking you was all heresay from a girlfriend. She was right when the male co-worker was told if he wanted to meet you then he must make the first move.
It has been a month and he has not contacted you with a cell phone call, email, or face to face communication. Since he has not made a move to meet you in a month irregardless of your policy, you should not bring the office relationship situation back up. Thirty days is a long time for the male co-worker to make up his mind if he wanted to meet with you. You did not mention the proximity of how close he works with you on your job. If he is employed by the same company then he should stay out of reach because an office relationship goes against your personal policy of dating coworkers.
Look at the month lag in no communication as a stamp of approval that you made the right decision. Do not date your coworker. Friendship is fine but anything further than that can be of peril to your working conditions if the two of you were meet, form a relationship and then have a disagreement. An arguement could very well cause to a negative change in your job performance. With the status of the economy, you do not want to lose your job.
So let the resurgent thought of the male co-worker go and move on to meet someone outside of your workplace. You are only looking back on what could have been. Forget the past, choose to stay with your personal policy of not dating co-workers and move on.
The entire fiasco of the male co-worker liking you was through conversation through your friend and not face to face with him. Let the make believe go and get on with your work and your life. There are plenty of available men offline and online away from your work place. You did the right thing when you were "told" that he liked you and did not send a responsive message back to through your friend. Do not send a message back a month later that you are interested in male co-worker now because of what you think could've, would've and should've.
Your first move is always the best move and you did the right thing to not begin an office relationship with someone who did not speak with you out of interest and who worked for the same company. Do not rethink yourself. Remain friends with your girlfriend who told you that the male coworker liked you and do not bring up conversation about him again.
Let bygones be bygones if there were the possibility of a office relationship because that is not what you are all about. You made the right choice the first time. Move on.
Thank you so much for your comment. I was second guessing myself and I will not bring it up again with both co-workers.
Great hub you got here!
I believe that just by mere staring, a girl would have an idea if the guy likes them.
i need some adive, there this guy i like that works in the same caffe as me, and we always talk to each other, he really funny, great guy.
ok there the deal, i've noticed a few days ago hes always asking my to go out with him, ok first i was going swimming togther and he was aksing me when i was free to hang with him. it first i though he's a player coz he does touch me arms, back, he even puts his head on my shoulder and he always looks at me. Though i do lean on him and touch is arm.
i don;t really know if he really likes me, or hes just playing around? and there a kinda big age gap i'm 18 i think hes 26 or 27.
Jennifer, thank you for your comment. I am glad that I could help. Your first answer to a question is right most of the time. You made the right choice to move on and to not mix the company's ink with a relationship. I hope that you and your girlfriend are still friends.
admin, I agree with you. Thank you for your comment. You can also feel the chemistry with body language as well as eye contact. If the man you are interested in, deny the attraction more often then not he may be just shy.
eminem,
The co-worker at the cafe, in my opinion, is a person that likes to touch people as a part of his conversation. You touch him back almost involuntarily as a return gesture.
Do not carry the relationship any further than a purely work situation. You are just starting out in life and should be concentrating on maybe a few night courses and getting prepared for a career. The twenty-seven year old is very mature as you are only eighteen and is really just "playing around" with you.
Continue to laugh and joke with him but do not form a relationship with this person who is so much more older and experienced than you are. If his touching you is uncomfortable , let him know.
He seems like a person who wants the workday in go by without any problems between employees. He sees the small talk and casual touching as a working relations so you both can get through the day.
Do not make the work relationship something that it is not.
Communicate with friends closer to your age so that this co-worker's behavior will not be taking up your time. Going back to school if you can afford to is the better option. That way you can meet friends who have the same interests.
wow this was cool can w8 for more stuffff
Sorry, but that's horrible advice.
Sometimes guys like it when a girl asks them out. Depends on the guy. And dating co-workers is fine....many long-term relationships and marriages are with people who met as co-workers. If you like the guy, just talk to him, spend some time with him, and you'll find out, trust me!
amberterrien, Thank you for your comment.
Bob, thank you for your comment. I agree with you that there are exceptions to every rule. A scientific report was not consulted and the hubpage was totally my opinion from experience and other observations.
I stand by the information in the article that it is not a good idea to mix the office ink with a relationship. Most of these women who met their husbands on their jobs can not help but wonder if the next girl that meets his fancy at the office will end up kicking her out. Men are basically conquestors and if he found his wife in an office setting, what is stopping him from using that environment to find someone else just as attractive?
The article "How Do You Know if a Guy Likes You" was written from a woman's perspective. If you read the requester of this information who is a woman, you will see that she also agreed not to have a relationship with a co-worker.
The following story is not to vaidate why co-workers should not date. Validations are clearly outlined in the hubpage response about dating coworkers. I will mention a particlular television show I saw on the Family network. A woman manager, hired an office worker and went on a date with him. At the restaurant, the male office worker saw a former girlfriend and made the comment that he had slept with her to spruce things up for her relationship. The woman manager was appalled at the comment and promptly left the dinner table. You can imagine the tension the following day at work. Suffice it to say, the male co-worker may eventually leave the job because of the tension brought on by a date with his woman manager. If she had not gone on a date with him, everything would have remained on a professional level.
Women hubbers, professionalism is the key to keeping business in the office and not dating a co-worker who could cause major problems at the workplace. I have one dissenter here and for some reason turned out to be male. Could it be that most men think that the women are here for their choosing regardless of where you meet them. These men should think twice because women always have the option to say no as the case of Jennifer, the catalyst of How to Know When a Guy Likes You. Jennifer's personal policy was not to date anyone from the office. A coworker showed an interest in her but she did not waiver from her policy of not dating co-workers. A month later, she thought that maybe she should give it a whirl. I informed Jennifer to stay on course with her policy and not to date a coworker because she may lose her job.
With the state of the economy, no one can afford to lose their job for a office relationship that may go bad. Do the right thing, and keep business in the office and relationships out of the office. There are exceptions to every rule but why take a chance the future of your job and your heart?
i like your hubpage. i am new to hubpages if you have any pointers i would appreaciate it.how did you get that video on there
Wow this article is wonderful. it opens my mine on the next time ive meet for a girl...next time i will change my style for a girl..
sweetascandy, thank you for your article. On the edit page, select from the content capsules video. The video will drop to the end of the article that you are writing. Click on the edit button and then select from a You Tube Video of relevance to your article. You will need to have YouTube up at the same time as hubpages. Click URL of the Youtube video found to the right of the video. Copy and Paste the URL into the video content capsule after clicking on Web as in indication that you are using a URL from the web.
Click on Preview Video and then click on Save. Your video will be at the bottom on the article. Use the Module to the left of the article to move your video to the top, middle or bottom of your article.
If you do not understand the directions, Go to the Forum click on the Help Button after typing in "Video Placement."
Thank you Hammerj for you comment. "Wow" comments are always welcome and I am glad that you learned from "How to Know if A Guy Likes You."
"Guys know when you like them, they have sensors that lets them know just as the girl has intuition."
I'm curious as to what experience or event led you to believe this. I completely disagree. I have never once had any idea of how a woman my age feels towards me, nor do I have any idea how to obtain such information except by asking. Also I'm fairly sure a lot of my buddies feel the same way. Maybe it's not necessary when the right one comes along, but I've always felt blind as a bat when it comes to romantic signals.
Cybermouse, thank you for your comment.
There is this thing called chemistry and people of common interests and connecting characters sometime feel this attraction upon meeting for the first time. Maybe you have not met the right person yet to give you the feeling of awesomeness that brings two people together and sometimes forever.
Do not rush the feeling. Go on with your interests and when you least expect it, you may meet that special person who genuinely "likes you." Information gathered for "How to Know If a Guy LIkes You" was came from experiences and interaction with people who found friendship on a transparent and on a deeper levels.
You are entitled to disagree and your interaction is much appreciated. But do not base your take on attraction between two people narrowly from your own experience. Have an open mind and if you are looking to be liked by a special person then you may find that person. If you are into other interests then you may have met the person but was too consumed in what you were doing.
You do not have to obtain information because if you are liked no office is going to send you a memo. You have to be self aware and aware to know when you have met that special person. Even scientific reports on experiments, hypothesis are not counted out until all observations have been scrutinized.
Do not just rely totally on your take or your buddies take on what constitutes a special feeling towards another person. Maybe your observations or "romantic signals" as you call it is not on the drawing board yet.
as i guy, i read about 1 paragraph and already i disagree. Sensors? not conscious ones if any.
Koby, thank you for your comment. I used the term sensors for lack of a better word because guys can sense when a girl is interested in him. If he doesn't sense any attraction then there is nothing there.
I liked your hub...and it was some stuff was right on the money. I know several guys who do not like a girl/woman to be aggressive in the pursuit (in the bedroom, it's a WHOLE nother story lol).
I will say that as far as dating a co-worker, while I once frowned upon it (don't like to mix business with pleasure), recently i've fund that these are the relationships that last for a while- of course there are the random romps in the copy room, but because you all work together, you have things in common. also you don't really have to worry about seeing that person, because you all see each other 8 hrs out of the day, compared to maybe 4 or 5 in the mornings or evenings when dating someone who doesn't work with you.
But as I said, good hub...the youtube portion from a male's perspective was def. head on. I enjoyed that a lot. I think we women have a better understanding of men than they like to give us credit for ;-)
When a guy like a girl, it's very nice. There is not something it must be done. Do something you like.
BeautySpeaks, thank you for you comment. I appreciate you for saying that you agree with not mixing business with pleasure. I am pretty sure that there are a few romps in the copy rooms and it may make the day work day go by faster but would not build that bit of fun into a relationship.
The video has some alright stuff in there, thats good.
The article itself was... not very correct. speaking as a guy. I have no way to sense if someone likes me, I wish I did. The incorrect part about the article is just the gross generalization of guys. You can find a group of guys described like this, but i doubt it would even be the majority of guys.
Also, I'm offended at being called a "conquestor".
Mae West, in a 1930s movie, asked something like, "Are you happy to see me, or is that a gun in your pocket?"
Koby, thank you for your comments and for viewing and commenting on the video. This particular hubpage had a slant to it as it pertains to meeting for the first time. There are diffierent variations to knowing if a guy likes you based on a myriad of different factors. You will find that as you gain more experience with the opposite sex, the notions in the article are not generalizations at all. You will know when you are attacted to another person, you probably have not had the experience as of yet. I would not make the information contained in the article an issue, just look at it in the context of meeting a girl or guy for the first time.
dabeaner, thank you for your comment. I have to admit that Mae West whole personna was based on her sexuality. I am not enlightened on the ability of a man to show such an overt attraction with just one glance and nothing else.
I'm talking to a boy and its been three weeks now and ive met a good amount of his friends already and he treats me good.. And one day after a party we went to together i stayed over his house and meet his dad by accident. The next day he was saying how im the only girl that has met that many of his friends and his dad included.. He also got a new puppy that wouldn't leave my side and he keept on impressing that since the pup likes me he better keep me around..
I'm wondering wether this guy is legit or not because i really like him and im not looking to play games.
Ana, thank you for your comment.
After reading that you have met your friend's father, spent the night over his house and gets along nicely with the new puppy, it seems as though you are doing all of the right things. I think, however, that three weeks is a little too soon to know if your friend likes you in the way you hoped. His Dad likes you, his friends likes you even your friend's new pet likes you. But your friend has never told you face to face that he likes you.
Your friend is using all of the indicators that you should be using. He is playing with your emotions because he has not had an honest one on one talk with you to let you know how he feels about you. You said that you spent the night but there was no word from him about how he felt about you except reference to his dad meeting you the following morning.
My advice to you is to continue to be his friend but do not tell him how you feel about him. If he has not told you his true feelings in three month's time and is still looking at how others feel about you, then you need to calm your enthusiasm about him.
Your friend was right on one accord when he mentioned his new puppy liking you. Normally if his pet likes you that is a good indication that you are a kind and friendly person. However, your friend's new puppy actions of affection can not substitute for your friend telling you himself how he feels about you.
You say that you really like your friend and he knows it and that may be the reason why he is looking at other people's reaction to you. Try very hard to make yourself not so convenient to him. Do not sleep over again and be patient and see what happens
After three month's time you should know how he feels about you. You can cut to the chase and ask him but I think that after three weeks, you may be rushing it a bit.
Eheh, if he drools,he likes you ^_^'
anime_nanet, thank you for your comment.
Uhmm never thought of a guy showing that he likes you by drooling like that. If he drools he probably wants to make out with you too but that's another hubpage article not yet written.
I'm a guy and I don't neccessarily agree with everything in here, but it's an excellent hub none the less and deserves nothing less than the front page.
Thank you, Garrett, for your comment and for the front page recommendation. I would appreciate it if you would espound on your disagreements on "How to Know if a Guy Likes You," I am an open minded person and want to hear from the male perspective.
This was a really great read. Thank you so much for a wonderful and enlighting hub.
Thank you vshining for your comment.
A guy dat truly likes a lady will be patient with her and respect her dearly.He will treat d lady with great sense of respect.Be careful with with a guy who wants 2 ve affair with u d first time of seeing u-it could just b infatuation.Don't make yourself look too cheap 4 guys-if he truly loves u,he won't rush u into anything.
Excellent advice victory1234. I agree with your philosophy on respecting women, advising women to not have an affair on the first date and telling women not to dress cheaply.
Also, I like your comment that if a guy truly loves you that he won't rush you into anything. Great comment and must appreciative.
A guy could show interest with the gal lots of ways. But his interestsmay vary. So I must say, if a guy is really into the woman, he'll swoon over her and not try so hard to catch the attention of that gal. But if the guy is intersted in the gal for another reason, then I guess some of his moves would be quite too obvious, don't you think so? So girls, look at your guy in the eye and tryto read his motives from his eyes.
A guy could show interest with the gal lots of ways. But his interestsmay vary. So I must say, if a guy is really into the woman, he'll swoon over her and not try so hard to catch the attention of that gal. But if the guy is intersted in the gal for another reason, then I guess some of his moves would be quite too obvious, don't you think so? So girls, look at your guy in the eye and tryto read his motives from his eyes.
bethoven, thank you for your comment. I agree with you that the way a guy looks at you says a lot about how he feels about you. Thanks also for letting me know that guys plays there little games when they do not try so hard to catch the attention of the girl.
There are many ways to detect a love:
That guy is taking a lot of interest in you and is very concerned with regard to your likes and dislikes.
The guy might be getting nervous and is feeling at the top of the world when with his girl.
tanay253, thank you for your comment. I appreciate your informative advice.
This is wonderful!
I like the part that says if you're wondering than you're worrying. That really puts it into perspective :)
jamiesweeney, thank you for your comment.
Uhmm this is kind of embarrssing.. Well i'm in seventh grade. There is this boy that I like. He sits behind me in math class.. I mean I talk to him but I am kind of shy, but he always smiles at me and makes me laugh. I also catch him occasionally looking at me and defending me a lot ^//^. I mean it makes me happy but I am still kind of worried. I know, I know it might sound like he does like me but I can't be sure... That is was I don't have the guts to go up and ask him what girls he likes etc;..) But okay I guess what I really wanna know is what would you do..? I mean I really like him and we are friends. I just don't want us to be just friends so if I know I at least have somewhat of a chance I wanna take it and not think about what it would have been like if I hadn't.
Allie=] Thank you for your comment. I advise you to do your school work so that you will get a good job. Boys in the seventh grade are more into video games than girls so do your best school work and concentrate on making good grades.
How are you? I know this is long but plz I can only talk to you and I don't trust my friends. Well there is this guy I liked last year (school year) and we talked once in a while let me call him Jon.You see he is 2 years older than me so which means he is taking a fifth year in high school and i'm in gr. 11.Well there was a time last year when I was talking to him because our teacher was running late.. Well anyway so umh...well he seemed kind of nervous talking to me so has we were talking some guy came and said hi to Jon and Jon said Hi but did not look at the guy , Jon still kept his eyes on me..it was kinda like a please go away this is not the right time to say hi to me. Maybe 30s later another friend came over to say hi to him but it was a girl. Jon just waved at her not evening looking at her... you know he was paying so much attention on me... why i don't know. As the girl left she looked back at me.. like whats so special about her and who is she look. He is pretty popular at school that all the girls think his nice cute, funny and am the quite gal that most guys try to figure out..We have so much in common. Well you also see I can sing and he has told me I have a pretty voice. well now school is opened and all we do is just stare at each other in the hall way that's if we see eachother.The stare seems long even if it's just for 2s and the stare he gives me is like am the only one that exists right now or maybe wow she is pretty stare. I don't know. Well should I even bother to still like him. do you think somewhere in his heart he might like me?Please don't tell me to say hi to him when i see him in the hallway.. i am usually the one to start a conversations with him. Maybe when his at his locker I might say hi.I think i send him mixed signals.
Please reply soon
jojo thank you for your comment. Here is my sound advice to you regarding a senior who may have repeated the twelve grade and you as an eleventh grader is swooning over him. You need to stop fantasizing. You need to stop fantasizing that he thinks that you are pretty. You may be pretty but you do not know what he thinks until he says something to that effect. I am not saying that you aren't pretty which is not the issue here.
You need to stop reading into him not taking his eyes off of you when other students pass him in the hall. He may be just a guy who does not like to be distracted while having a conversation. You did not tell me what the conversation was about but if he did not ask for your cell phone number to call you later for a date, he was probably just having a conversation.
JoJo, you must realize that as a young woman, you may think that you got everything to snare him into a relationship. I think that you are in a fantasy world and is reading too much into whether or not he likes you. You should concentrate on completing high school and focusing your thoughts on what you are going to do with your future.
Having boyfriends is a pleasant high school experience and sometimes lead into marriage with hormones raging and most girls are thinking about relationships. Guys, however, are also at the stage where they may be looking for a serious relationship. But, JoJo, you can not make this guy like you by being at the right place at the right time.
He must be genuinely interested in you and if he wanted to see you or take you on a date, he would have asked for follow up information to get in touch with you. He did not.
You are building up from something that is not real at the moment. Concentrate on your schooling and if he sees you again, maybe he will ask for your cell phone number. But until that time, which is not promised, concentrate on something that is real and that is your employment future that starts with a good education that may include college.
JoJo, its been two years now and that is ample enough time for him to make a move. You need to get over your fascination with him and move on to a better future for yourself.
thanx
Hello again,
Well it's very hard for me to forget about someone I liked. I do appreciate that you replyed but something else happened 2day. Well we had a fire drill at school so every1 was outside and I saw Jon and Jon saw me so a group of girls called his name and he looked at me to see my reaction and of course i looked away.Well I also had summer school with Jon... new credit.So I saw Jon in the hallway and he looked at me like exppecting me to say hi but i didn't I wanted him to say hi but he just kept looking at me.like the usual a group of gals went to him but he wasn't paying much attention to them it was me he was looking at I saw this because I forgot my note book in class.I don't know if he is shy but I do know he is always a gal magnet. He is not repeating just taking new course + he is smart. I know you told me what to do but I just feel like maybe I should go say hi to him and see his reaction instead of me and him staring.He couldn't ask 4 my number because that was the first proper conversation me and him had ever since then we just stare.We were taking about school see nothing so interesting.That's why at summer school he expected me to a say hi I am duin really well at school. I am just so so so confused.Well I passed him by his locker and guess? He just stared at me passing by he always does that.I wish I had enough confidence to step up to him and greet him but I was too chicken. Weird guy.I think he knows I like him though...why? Just a feeling.Please help again and am so sorry for asking so many questions but i do need some advice.
jojo, thank you for your response. You should take your advice and walk up to him and say hi. You sound as though you may be afraid of rejection and then your feelings will have to end. You need to stop reading his stares and other girls' actions and reread what you wrote. You wrote yourself some good advice. I am glad that your friend is not a repeater and that you are doing well in school.
thanx ...shuld I tell you what happens when i do say hi to him?
I find your hub to be quite a harsh generalization. Being a guy who is quite social most of the time, I find it extremely difficult to approach women I am actually interested in (yes, I know that's my problem and mine alone). This obviously stems from something in my early developement, and I have stopped dating altogether for the last two years in order to attempt to resolve this. All I'm saying is that sometimes (perhaps even more often than not) people in general have fears regarding starting new relationships. I am one of these people. One particular situation that has gone on for years involves a woman I've been interested in who deliberately ignores me every time I've tried to speak to her. This was after being frozen with fear for all too long and of course took too much time to make any kind of a move, but there were other factors at work. There have been times she's been a little intoxicated in my presence and has yelled across the tavern at me that she's still single (I mean, she literally screamed this at the top of her lungs at me). Of course it's not so simple when she also hides within her circle of friends who all tell her not to talk to me saying that I'm a loser. No, they don't know the first thing about me and their affectatious opinions of me don't really phase me, but I'm not one to dive into a snakepit, either. The main issue has always been her being coached by her group of friends who are deliberately causing conflicts between us, while I'm on my own because my friends mind their own business. All I'm saying is there is far more than meets the eye in most cases, and everyone has different ways of reacting to different situations based on their past experiences and present circumstances.
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jojo, thank you for your comment. Keep me posted on when you say hi to your friend. Thank you also jojo for contributing to the creation of a hubpage on infatuation.
jojo, thank you for your comment. Keep me posted on when you say hi to your friend. Thank you also jojo for contributing to the creation of a hubpage on infatuation.
Jonathan Janco, thank you for your comment and for sharing your relationship experiences. Two years is a long time to go without dating because of one experience. If the girl of your interest is easily influenced by others maybe you should find a new person to relate to.
Jonathan Janco, thank you for your comment and for sharing your relationship experiences. Two years is a long time to go without dating because of one experience. If the girl of your interest is easily influenced by others maybe you should find a new person to relate to.
Yes, perhaps you're correct . . . thank you for letting me vent.
This is going to sound utterly ridiculous. I've been dating the same guy for about five years now. I really do care about him and I've always thought we would end up still together in the end. Well school just started and I met this guy who I just can't stop thinking about. It feels like I'm tied to him somehow..I don't know. He always smiles at me, tries to initiate a conversation, asks about what I like to to listen to, will compliment me, when he looks at me it's like he's really looking at me. But this is where it gets confusing...he has a girlfriend and is always talking about her. He'll compliment me but then say that he has a girlfriend. He knows I have a boyfriend as well. This is killing me because I don't want to leave my boyfriend but for some reason this guy has a hold on me that just can't shake off. I keep telling myself it's all in my head but I'm not so sure. Usually he parks his car on the opposite side of the parkinglot but just now started parking next to me. He will wait for me to leave class and then join me to walking to the parking lot (although I don't say a thing because I'm way too shy and shocked by what's going on). I know it's really stupid of me to waste my time thinking about this but it bothers me and I want to know once and for all...maybe he's just a really nice person and just wants to make friends. It would be great if I could have your opinion on this.
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Idiot girl,what you wrote sounds like you may have lost interest in your old boyfriend and is looking for someone new. Your new friend is only a friend and you should not get involved with him if he already has a girlfriend. He has not said that he would leave his girlfriend and because he parks next to you is not telling you that he is interested. Unless he tells you that he is leaving his girlfriend and would like to be your boyfriend, you need to either find another more interesting boyfriend or be satisfied with who you are with now. You may be attracted to him because he belongs to another and it is intriguing to talk to another guy. Without knowing you, this is a hypothesis and of course can not be proven. Either you make the first move to get into a relationship or stay where you are with the boyfriend who you have. My guess is that you are just intrigued with this guy and is in the early stages of infatuation.
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I am soooo sad:( you know what I saw today?I saw Jon hug another gal and she can also sing and she is preetty not saying I am ugly.I just pretended not to see them and went to my class although he noticed me as he gave the gal a huge.I was in shock!i though i was going to tear up.I wonder if he likes any of these gals.These past weeks I hadn't seen him at school so i couldn't say hi or chat with him.I think you were right maybe I should forget about him but how can you forget about someone? i was going to say hi to him yesterday at his locker but he was around gals i am sure somewhere out there someone loves me as much as i love them.I think he expects me to go up to him and talk to him because he is used to gals approaching him.. I wish I never met him but you can't rewind time.What should i do???
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Soory for typing twice again.Does it mean anything cause like this whole week i have being seeing the number 11... on the clock tv, cell phone etc... i see it at least every day
jojo, thank you for your comment. You need to get over this guy and stop beating yourself up when you see him with other girls. Find another interest to get over him as you were never in a relationship.
What if he acts flirty and terasy to you, but he is like that to other girls as well. Like you know that he finds you attractive but only acts like he only wants one thing.... and he'll talk to you occasionally when he sees you and wants to hang with you when he sees you but then at school he acts awkward around you and he suddenly stops texting u and itwaits al longggg time to write to you again and keeps stopping and isn't consistent with talking to you?? but sometimes he DOES act like he likes me but more of what he thinks he can get from me, and maybe not me.
HELP!
HCvolleyballbabe, thank you for your comment.
You said that he talks, flirts and tease with you like all of the other girls and you want to know if he really likes you differently from the rest.
You can help yourself on this one. Some guys are hesitant to make the first serious move on a very attractive girl and plays it safe by treating her like his other friends.
He seems like a likeable guy and you should not have a problem inviting him to a party or a social event so the two of you can see if you really like each other. You are going to make the first move on this one, girlfriend.
Thanks! but like my delay is that he'll text me one day, and it'll be nothing but perverted chatting from him, then the next day he wont text me for a while til i guess you could call it bootycall. And im worried that he only likes me in a sexual way. and everytime he stops texting me i promise myself, okay next time i won't text him back and i tell myself that i am over him, but then he texts me and all my feelings come back to him once again. And i texted him a couple days ago and he never replied but i saw him on my friends facebook and he posted a comment the night i texted him, saying to text him.... if he wanted people to text him why didnt he text me back... is he just using me for when hes bored or when he knows i am going to see him, because he thinks he'll be able to get something out of me.... if so how do i stop liking him?!? it's like i can't
HCOvolleyballbabe, thank you for your comment. You have the answer to your question and must want confirmation. Yes, this guy is using you and is capable of texting other people on face book and only text you when in need of sex. You need to meet more people and not give in like you are a commodity that will beckon when called. Add to your social life and when he text again, make a concerted effort to not answer. If you talk about the guy again, I am not going to be an enabler to a situation where it is obvious that a person is being used because he knows that he can get it from you.
okay yeah thats what i was planning on doing, just ignoring his texts
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Jennifer says:
5 months ago
Okay, I need some advice. About a month ago, a female coworker told me that another coworker was interested in asking me out. He asked our mutual coworker, if she thought I would go out with him. My female coworker said, he should ask.
Eventually she told me about it, and I told her I do not date coworkers. However, I am now interested. I am not sure if she told him I do not date coworkers.He hasn't asked me and it's been almost a month now.
My questions are: Is it a good idea to date a coworker?
Since he has not asked, do I approach my female coworker and inquire about it? You know, bring it up and ask if anything was said between them after our own conversation.
Or do I approach the guy?
I am really confused because I have no experience in this department, please provide me some guidance. Thanks.