I have been through two marriages and still don't find it difficult to befriend a female. I don't have hidden agendas and want genuine friends. I try not to hurt any of them and that I find extremely difficult. Tonight I did just that. I heard how she cried and all because I could not understand why one of my friends refused to speak to me. I had had a long day and just needed to hear her voice only to find that both her phones had been turned off. 

So Teddybear1000 requests a hub from me concerning all the females in my life.

Where do I begin?

I haven't always been a flirt. At one stage in my life my parents thought I would be staying at home for life. Then I got married the first time for all the wrong reasons but decided to continue anyway as I was and still am a staunch Catholic.

Afetr 18 years we called it quits. She went her way and I mine.

Six years later I was to burn my fingers very eina for a second time. Losing a very good friend in the process. The pain took a while to get over. But she came to terms with I had done and we renewed the friendship to the detriment of my second marriage that ended recently.

I became a flirt between marriages. I enjoy female company to men. It's not a sin. They are better to look at, better in conversation and better to be around.

I have a very friendly nature and love to spoil them too. I cherish my friendships and would do anything for them. God has yet to make an ugly woman.

However, with recent happenings between two of my friends I have decided to quit all but one friendship. I will be choosing that one that has been most caring to me. This decision is just to give me time to recuperate and get my senses back.

Its also to get back in the competition. I cannot let the competition die because I was too lazy to compete.

So to your answer...

One or two but no more...