How do you make your partner desire you enough to make the first move (I'm talking about sex) rather than having to...
62Use your senses...
If you have a partner, it is because they really like you. But when they seem to not desire you as much as you desire them it could be one or two things.
1. You are giving them too much attention and they like it. Sometimes people want to be wanted and it is a turn on for them. Maybe they desire you just as much, but wont let it be known because they dont have to, you do.
2. Our senses attracts us to one another. From the way you look and smell to the way we touch one another. I would try in your case, using a new fragrance. If it is really good, you will be requesting info on "how to make your partner not desire you," lol. I know that when I smell good, strangers compliment me and I notice an attraction or look that almost tell you what they are thinking. I love to smell good and I love when my girl smells just as good as I do.
3. Try something different. Dont ask, just do it! Do something so exotic that they will feel like you are going crazy. Worship them and their body in a way that they will never forget. Dont have sex...make love.
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I hate game playing, but I have found that my partner is the most distracted and inattentive when I most want his attention and most needy when I'm busy. Sometimes the only way to get him to pay proper attention is to become engaged in something else and ignore him. He seems to immediately sense I'm not readily available and to start seeking me out.
Arlie MacGregor says:
2 years ago
Talk about it. Perhaps your partner grew up in a conservative home and doesn't know that it's okay for women to make a move. If she's shy about initiating, ask her what you can do to help her get over that. Tell her how you feel.