How do you please a woman in bed?

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How do you please a woman in bed?

Is there really a correct answer? The answer is, there is a different answer for each woman. All women are different in their needs and wants. A physical act for one woman might be seen as a turn on but might have the opposite effect for another. Also,each relationship is different. Depending on what the woman is in the relationship for, her needs might vary. I'm sorry to say, that in today's society, monogomy is not always practiced. This fact is true for men and women alike. However, in a long term relationship, a woman's needs are pretty universal, in my opinion. To please your woman in bed, you have to please her in other aspects too. A woman wants to feel loved, appreciated, wanted and irreplaceable. It is good for the man in her life to show her love every day with small gestures like a kiss on the cheek for no reason, a passionate gaze in her eyes during a simple conversation or a smile from across the room. This shows her she is important. It is also a good idea to acknowledge the good that she does for you and the family. A woman's work is hard and neverending, especially if there are other responsiblities in her life besides pleasing her man, such as children or work. You should not over exaggerate your thanks, but make sure she knows you recognize her effort. Too much emphasis might be seen as sarcasm. Let your woman know she is wanted by telling her just that. Let her know how much you love spending time with her and tell her about all the things that make her special in your eyes. When she asks you "why do you love me", have a good answer. When a woman is happy in life, she is easier to please in the bedroom. When the feelings above are expressed effectively, it is easy to make love work to both of your advantages. Passion flows in the moment of contentment in a relationship. If you have set the mood by showing her love and gratitude for who she is as the woman in your life, she will be more open to pleasure. Words are power. Tell her while you are in the act of making love how it makes you feel just to have the opportunity to be close to her. Tell her in the moment how much you love her. A simple touch can be just as stimulating as the acutal act of love making to a woman if she has been well lubricated emotionally. The rest comes with practice. Get to know her pleasure points. Ask her what she likes and what she doesn't after some time together practicing, the pleasure part comes naturally.

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G-Ma Johnson  says:
15 months ago

Very good my dear...We are really simple to please in my opinion...a single flower picked from the garden and hidden behind his back as he walks in...coming home with a bottle of wine for no reson...calling in the middle of a day to say "I LoveYou"...there are many ways to show you how you love her..and then she is ready for those moments alone 'together' thanks hun for a sweet hub..G-Ma :o) hugs

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ariat_class  says:
9 months ago

Awesome hub! It's kinda sad some men have to be trained on the tactics of pleasing a women.. We are not that hard to figure out! But it does help to have the right man that's trying.. HEHE. If it's the wrong man we are definitely not going to submit. Lucky for "SOME" there are men out there that just know naturally how it's done. YEEHAW! :)

Davis Collins  says:
9 months ago

THATS WONDERFULLY WRITTEN HEHEHEHEHEEE

TO BE PLEASED YOU NEED TO PLEASE SOMEONE

TO BE LOVED,YOU NEED TO LOVE SOMEONE

TO BE CARED FOR,YOU NEED TO CARE FOR SOMEONE

TO PLEASE A WOMAN ONE NEEDS TO MAKE HER HAPPY WITH A ROSE

OR PROBABLY WITH SOMETHING YOU KNEW SHE LIKES MOST,

WHY NOT TRY OUT THIS.

KISS ON THE HAND........I ADORE YOU

KISS ON THE HAND........I ADORE YOU.

KISS ON THE LIPS.........I LOVE YOU

A LOOK IN HER EYE.......KISS ME

PLAYING WITH HER HAIR.....I CAN'T DO WITH YOU

OR HANDS ON THE WAIST WHICH MEANS I WILL NEVER LET YOU GO

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queen cleopatra  says:
8 months ago

My husband has always been a considerate partner. I'm blessed because I met him. We're married for 20 years and our three kids are teenagers now. :D

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